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fandomsecrets2013-06-28 06:57 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-06-28 06:57 pm
[ SECRET POST #2369 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2369 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
01.
[Hannibal]
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02.
[Mother India, Sholay]
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03.
[Mad Men]
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04.
[Hannibal, Red Dragon]
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05.
[Regular Show]
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06.
[tomofromearth]
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07.
[Charles Dance and Emilia Fox in "Rebecca"]
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08.
[Mandy Patinkin]
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09.
[Mad Men]
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10.
[The Creeps]
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11.
[Star Trek]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
12. [SPOILERS for the last of us]
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13. [SPOILERS for Bioshock Infinite]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
14. [WARNING for incest]
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15. [WARNING for rape]
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16. >[WARNING for rape]
http://i.imgur.com/eJbMOhY.png
[linked for actual movie scene maybe?]
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17. [WARNING for non-con]
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18. [WARNING for rape]
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19. [WARNING for incest, underage]
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20. [WARNING for suicide]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #337.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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If you're talking about BDSM related kink here... consent is what makes it kink. Otherwise, it's abuse. There is no such thing as non-con BDSM because once someone doesn't want to be involved, it's just somebody beating on, spanking, whipping, raping someone else.
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-29 10:44 am (UTC)(link)kink can be anything, from bondage to waterports to latex
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-29 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)I was raped by someone who claimed afterward that it was "accidental" BDSM. One of the most important parts of recovery was being able to admit to myself that NO, he did not have my consent, we did not discuss it in advance, we had no agreement to "consensual non-consent"—it was NOT BDSM.
Real BDSM is very careful to be sure that consent is present and no one is forced into something they don't want. That's the entire point. It's not supposed to be a handy linguistic cover for actual rape and abuse.
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There's also sorta the question of how stories and fantasies about abusive, nonconsensual kink and/or sex, when exchanged consensually and with mutual understanding that the events of the story are Not Okay outside fantasyland, fit into "what is BDSM?" Like... okay, we're all on the same page that the stuff depicted within the story is not BDSM, not any sort of way to do kink in real life, and not okay. But it's still the raw fuel of a lot of people's fantasies and power-related kinks, and I get really annoyed with the mindset of "this story has nothing to do with BDSM"/"this is Wrong and anyone who faps to it is sick" on fics that don't have a "but it was all a pre-negotiated roleplay!" framing device.