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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-06 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2377 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2377 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-07-07 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
I wish I had a disorder, was on the autism spectrum, or a reason to blame anything but myself for my lack of relationships, social skills, and being a loser. I'm 28 and living at home, and I flunked out of college three times.

I'm an ambitionless basement dweller, and I know I'm becoming too comfortable being one. I'm a professional at self-pity. I still wish I had someone or a friend who could pull me out and motivate me to improve, but I know that's exactly like the Manic Pixie Dream Girl trope I despise.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-07-07 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
be your own Manic Pixie Dream Girl

I mean it, anon. You can do this.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-07-07 05:20 am (UTC)(link)
da

+1 to this

be your own obnoxiously stubborn cheerleader

or drill sergeant

or a counselor who listens without judging

alternate between them as required

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-07-07 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
I'm in the exact same situation you are, anon (one year younger, never even been to college), and I have plenty of legitimate reasons to blame others for my being a loser, but being able to blame someone or something else doesn't actually solve the problem or make those to blame take responsibility for it. You're on your own no matter whose fault it is.

And trust me, MPDGs are the most annoying people to actually have in your life. Nothing makes me want to shut myself up in my room forever more than some chipper motherfucker bouncing around trying to make me useful, because I want to spite them into sparkly oblivion. I have to motivate myself, or it just doesn't work.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-07-07 08:43 pm (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Thank you for this comment. I mean it. Even if I could point a finger at someone or something, I'm the one responsible for what comes next. I'm surprised I didn't know this until you put it that way.