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Re: So my period never came, but the pee stick says I'm not pregnant.
(Anonymous) 2013-08-20 04:36 am (UTC)(link)Er... also, I'm kind of worried that your BF doesn't "get" why you might be upset at the thought of being pregnant or having some other reproductive system issue. It doesn't matter that he's a man, surely he's smart and empathetic enough to see why it might be a big deal because if you were pregnant, it'd be a big deal for the both of you.
I'm sorry, that's nosy of me. It just... sort of rubbed me the wrong way that guys are given a pass about being clueless about these issues as if it doesn't concern them.
Re: So my period never came, but the pee stick says I'm not pregnant.
(Anonymous) 2013-08-20 11:48 am (UTC)(link)But realistically, you can just go trough all the discussion of what you'd do if you'd fall pregnant and stuff, but in the end it's your body, not his. It's not a lack of caring, it's just a difference in biology.
You're the one who's have to have the abortion, or the pregnancy, not him (regardless of what you do to a couple). I also personally find it hard to convey that even though I don't want a kid, I'd still emotionally have a problem with being labeled an infertile woman at a young age. I think it's sort of different for men because their fertility is, in theory, unlimited.
Honestly my mom's reaction upset me more (we're usually very close) but now I'm worried she might guilt-trip me over an abortion if I ever needed one.