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STRAIGHT "ALLIES" WHO JUST FETISHIZE US AND TALK ABOUT STRAIGHT PRIDE AND HETEROSEXUAL AWARENESS

UGH YOU'RE ALL HORRIBLE JUST FUCK OFF

same goes for white people who do that kind of thing to other races and cis people who do it to trans people really just stop with this bullshit it is actually really harmful

Heterosexual awareness?

How is that a thing?

I am guessing you go, "Hey, look over there. Straight people!"

And then you have become heterosexual aware.

Agreed. Also men who do that for feminism also really fuck me off.
I'm looking at you Whedon.

I'll gladly let you fight your own fights, but I'll make no excuses for getting my rocks off thinking of homosexual sex. But it's not like I feel any need to tell homosexual persons I meet, so you shouldn't have a problem with it. Basic politeness is a good thing.

I don't have a problem with that. I don't care what sexual fantasies people have. I have all sorts myself.

By fetishizing I meant straight girls who think having a gay friend is soooo cool because you get to do all the girly things with them but they're also guys so like, you can get naked in front of them and they won't even care, tee-hee! Or dudes who think lesbians only exist to get them off and can't seem to separate their fantasy from real relationships that don't involve them.

I've gotta say, your two examples have a very different level of skeeviness. Using gay dudes like fashion accessories? Not cool. Using lesbians to get your rocks off while possibly being super creepy? Waaaay less cool. :/

I guess. I'm not really trying to make it a contest. These are just the two most common things I see and they both bother me a lot.

Fair enough. I thought you were trying to make some equivalency point, which was where my problem stemmed from. That second example I would definitely call fetishization, but I'm less sure about what to call the first.

What? Who (other than crazy people who don't call themselves allies) talk about straight pride or heterosexual awareness or white pride, whatever? The only "heterosexual awareness" I have heard of are Tumblr crazies talking about "OoooooOOOOoooHHHHHhhhhh be aware of the heteros!!!!"

DA, but I've heard people offine talk about that sort of thing ("If non-straight people are going to make a big deal of themselves and have pride parades, us straight people deserve to too!!").

Your first two sentences make zero sense. The last phrase makes some. Half trolling?

No? It was just a frustrated rant. But I'm pretty sure this thread is gonna turn wanky so I'm out.

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