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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-13 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2446 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2446 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]




















04. [WARNING for gore, blood, etc]

[How To Train Your Dragon]


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05. [WARNING for child abuse]



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06. [WARNING for rape]



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08. [WARNING for torture]

[Fall Out Boy's "The Phoenix"]


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09. [WARNING for underage]

[pokemon conquest]


















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #349.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] darkmanifest 2013-09-14 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
Everything in frigging moderation. The way I see it, the problem isn't safe spaces as a concept, it's when people do what you did and "immerse" themselves in nothing but safe spaces for too long. Yeah, most of the time you have no choice but to deal with a world where pretty much nobody cares what you feel, but there's a time of day when I come home, lock the front door, and nobody's allowed to fuck with me until I go out again the next morning; the privilege of a safe space. If I never went out again for a long enough time, yeah, I'd lose the ability to handle shit. But if I had no home and was exposed 24/7 to everyone else's fuckery? I'd end up just as dysfunctional.

So, safe spaces are fine, so long as you don't A) try to wallow in them all the time, or B) expect the whole rest of the world to become just like your happy place.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly. Me, I'm in my mid-20s. I love my mother. So sometimes when I have a shitty day at work and everything feels overwhelming, I like to go to her house and get a hug from her and dinner and not have to deal with the stress of real-adult-life.

If I lived with her all the time (despite having my own income, etc.) and insisted on daily hugs and meals prepared by her all the time, then yes, that might become problematic.

But me wanting to be able to go see my mom and get a hug and a warm meal and no judgment? Is not a fucking problem in and of itself. It means I just like having a place with people who care for my well-being and won't judge me. That's not ~coddling~, that's keeping me sane sometimes.

Everyone deserves a place like that.

[personal profile] glo_unit 2013-09-14 06:43 am (UTC)(link)
I think this is by far the best response to this secret.
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[personal profile] arcadiaego 2013-09-15 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Everything in frigging moderation.

I want to staple this to the heads of so many people. Moderately, obviously.