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Re: "I talked to my boyfriend about porn

[(Anonymous)]

I really don't understand that at all. I'm a woman, and I admit dieing a virgin is something I have no problem with, and maybe why I don't get it. My mom hates my dad watching porn.(Something I found out in one of those conversations I never wanted to have with her while she was drunk. Thanks Mom.) A friend from school told me about finding her husbands porn stash and destroying it.

I don't get it, why so much hate for it? Is it threatening or something? I just really don't understand where that is coming from.

Re: "I talked to my boyfriend about porn

[(Anonymous)]

I think it's "man is attracted to porn -> man is not attracted to me -> if i can keep man from watching porn, that proves that he is attracted to me" or something along those lines anyway.

Re: "I talked to my boyfriend about porn

[(Anonymous)]

I don't get it either. I mean...I was always afraid of being dogpiled and told to die but...I don't get how it's degrading unless the porn itself is done in a way that is degrading.

Two people having sex....how is that by itself degrading. How it it hurtful that a person would be turned on by vanilla erotica.

I admit I read someone's short erotica fiction and my reaction was ".....I need to be alone."

Re: "I talked to my boyfriend about porn

[(Anonymous)]

Well it probably is degrading for the woman, even if the actual filmed stuff is fairly mediocre. The porn system is one big abuse machine. It produces pornographic materials and broken women.

Re: "I talked to my boyfriend about porn

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, and every woman in the industry is automatically a rape victim.

Can we please not have that conversation again? It didn't really go too well the last time.

It's all about the person really

[insanenoodlyguy]

I have sirius radio, which includes Radio Sex, a station hosted by actual porn starts of present and past. These are the well adjusted folks who did fine and are doing fine, and they lend a good perspective as they do talk about this stuff after having been on the inside.

This is a simplification but basically you have two main types of girl in porn: The girl who likes sex and wants to have as much of it as she can (or at least is fine with lots and lots) and ohhh, you can get paid for this? Fuck yeah! Those are the ones, largely, that are now doing the radio hosting and such.

Then there are the ones who are there becauase they feel they HAVE to be. they have mental damage, a drug problem (or get a drug problem by self medicating), have made mistakes in life and see no other way to make the money. These are the ones that get fucked up, or are made moreso then they started.

It's not necessarily that the system doesn't care (though that happens) but sometimes, especially with the mentally damaged ones, you can't tell the difference between the two types of girls for a while. Though usually within a year or two the ones who are in the second category burn out or have something bad happen and are out. Or they do fix themselves and realize they hate what they are doing, getting out okay but still with a lot of regrets.

It is better then it used to be though. Thanks to testing and whatnot, STD's are actually very tightly controlled so at least on the health end things are pretty safe.

Re: "I talked to my boyfriend about porn

[tabaqui]

I don't get it, either, other than some major self-esteem issues. I look at porn, my SO looks at porn, sometimes we share links. Who cares? Unless it's some *actual* snuff-type/rape-type porn, and the people involved are being coerced, then...it's just sex. Have at it.

Re: "I talked to my boyfriend about porn

[(Anonymous)]

I imagine there's some genuine concern over one's partner picking up some bad sexual habits and preferences from watching too much porn. Mainly a problem with people who dislike having frank conversations with their partners about what they do and don't enjoy, instead of acting out what some porn performers pretended to enjoy onscreen. I mean, when you hear stories about women who've gone years of their marriages faking orgasms and their husbands have no clue what a real orgasm feels like (how?!), or very sexually active adult men who still have no idea how to pay attention to a clitoris and think if you jackhammer your dick inside her violently enough it'll result in screeching pleasure, it makes you wonder where their poor information is coming from.