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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-15 03:31 pm
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[ SECRET POST #2448 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2448 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 07:51 pm (UTC)(link)
i feel that way all the time

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 07:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I know someone this could be directed to, and they don't miss you at all.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Ouch!

I have never RP'd, I've only watched the fallout here and on f-lists etc. and I don't think I'd ever dare to either. So much butthurt and so many broken hearts.

It reminds me a little of the "Dating in the Dark" reality-shows. It's all fun and giggles while it happens, and then so much heartbreak when they face the harsh reality.

Tell me I'm wrong if you know better, anon.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 08:28 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

The fallouts are horrible. It's so stupid too, how personal RPing can get. And even if there's no initial fallout that ends the RPing, once you stop... you stop having RP in common. In the end it was all I really had in common with some of my close friends, so we drifted; I hated it then and I hate it still.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

One thing that amazes me is how so many people mistake RP'ing for relationships and feelings for one another. I don't know how many people I've seen start up relationships due to fandom or RP and then they wonder why everything falls apart at some point. If all you have in common is RP, then it's probably not going to last long.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-28 03:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, that's very likely.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I alternately feel this way and don't feel this way. It's kind of weird.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I know the feeling. Sometimes I wish they'd send me an email or something, even if it's been years. Maybe I'll go do that myself. Maybe you should consider that too.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 08:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I miss you too.

- Oliver and friends

(Anonymous) 2013-09-28 03:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Aw!

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a someone like that. The RPing is the only thing about them I miss.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Same here. Though honestly, the RPing was good enough that I sometimes wish they'd get back in touch anyway. Maybe.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeeeah...I sort of have some like that? Except, there at the end, the rp was kind of shit outside of the whole "knowing each other really well/everything that comes with that".

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[personal profile] transcriptanon 2013-09-15 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
[Picture is an empty room with light blue walls.]

Dear former roleplaying buddy: I really fucking miss you.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
I have someone like this, and I don't miss them at all. They hounded me for tags and then took forever to tag back, got really weird and possessive when I RPed with other people, decided they were in love with me, turned into absolutely the most infuriating martyr when I didn't reciprocate, and then leeched on me so hard that it actually started affecting my emotional health. So I cut them out entirely, and I don't regret it for one second.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know if this is about me or not (at first, the feelings of attraction were explicitly mutual, and I don't recall ever pestering for tags though I did flake out a bit), but on the off chance it is, yeah, I was pretty fucked up at the time. I'm not OP, though I do miss RPing with you, but I don't miss being That Person. It's been years, and I've had a lot of time to think about it and realize what a clingy little turd I was.
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[personal profile] rosehiptea 2013-09-16 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Roleplaying turned out not to be for me, because I ended up having a hard time not stressing over it even though it's supposed to be fun. But the people... I really miss the people.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
I know someone who could say this about me. I don't miss them at all. Mainly because, at the end, they were even making out rps about their interests so it was nice to get away from the excessive "me, me, me".

(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
I'd suggest you tell them this. Even if it's just a "hey, how are you" message. If they don't want to talk to you, they won't talk to you. As long as you don't hound them, it's hardly out of line.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-28 03:46 pm (UTC)(link)
OP here

Given that the last thing they said to me was that I should stop writing to them, which I could only respect unless I really wanted to be an ass, I think any contact at all would count as hounding. So, outta luck.

Miss them, though. We were good friends for a while as well as doing some fucking brilliant roleplaying. C'est la vie.
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