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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-16 06:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2449 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
My parents would rather see me clinically depressed and disintegrating before their eyes than on medication with a chance of getting better. I plan on keeping my treatment a secret and making sure they never find out about any of my personal shit after I move out. Right now, they're basically lurking over my shoulder at every turn.

How much do you involve your parents in your personal issues, fandom!secrets?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm learning not to anymore. Or at least, that's what I tell myself. :p

But sorry to hear about your parents' attitude, Anon. That is a mountain of suckiness.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, it depends. I like to get their thoughts on certain matters, especially since I'm young and they have a better perspective on life, so I'll ask them about situations I've been through and what I should do. I tell them about my friends, because they like knowing that I get out and socialize.

But I never tell them what's going on with my medical issues. In fact, I only told my mom that I'd been hospitalized after I passed out and had a seizure when we had been discussing health insurance covering hospital visits, and she wanted to know why I knew so much. And this was like, a month and a half after it happened.

At least in terms of personal health, I don't think it's anybody's business but your own. You don't have to tell your parents shit about it, especially if they'll be more problematic than supportive.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm very conscious of telling them as much as possible, from little everyday details to major significant stuff in my life, but that is partly because there are areas of my life that I absolutely do not want to share with them. I have a hard being open about anything that makes me feel emotionally weak (I can admit plenty of stupid mistakes and ask for advice no problem, but confide in them about my problematic love life? Off limits. Or if I had a medical concern that impacted my life they'd definitely get told, but if I was just worrying and didn't know anything yet, not very likely).
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[personal profile] shortysc22 2013-09-17 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
My mom is very involved in my life and it's sort of what I need because she is my rock and stable person when I'm in the middle of a crisis. Mainly because mine would support me in whatever I wanted as long as it was a good move for me.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-17 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
Not very much at all. My mom died in 1991 and my dad, in '97.