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Re: I feel bullied in my home

[(Anonymous)]

jfc this thread

I'm sorry that you're in this situation. You should get a job - it's important to be independent and able to support yourself - but it's also important that you be, you know, sane and healthy and capable of working. Even if your parents are right about getting a job, it sounds like they're being intensely harsh on you in the process, which is not right. So just understand that, you know, they're not necessarily right about all things.

Please try to find any sliver of independence away from your parents that you can (and working can definitely help provide that), please seek help from anyone you can including therapists and friends, and please don't let your parents get you down.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

Exactly.

I mentioned several times in this thread that I have serious issues that I'm concerned about.

I mentioned upthread that I have problems with compulsive eating and the compulsive urge to physically punish myself when I feel guilty.

I'm legit concerned about my health. But I'm selfish for wanting help because it would "hurt my sisters" to have me sent away. How many times will I have to say that stuff.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

You're and adult now. You could leave on your own, you know. Where exactly do you want to be sent away to?

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

That's what I'm looking into right now. I just want a place where I can talk to someone and have them really listen. Someone who is actually educated on psychological disorders.

I don't want to stay there forever like some people seem to think....just enough to sort out my issues.

Also.....I CAN'T leave. I was never allowed to drive and and need to consult someone in getting to go somewhere.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Are you in a wheelchair? Because if you aren't then you can simply walk, or even get a pushbike. Cars are not the be all and end all of transportation. There are people that walk a couple of hours each day to get to an employer, there are people that cycle more miles than people drive to get to a job. And there are employers who will throw in accommodation, and even cover your travel costs to them, along with your job. Do a yahoo search, they'll mail you a form and give you a telephone interview and then you are on your way to the wide world.

Or if you are really stuck, spend a couple of months jogging a few miles every day to get your health up and then join the Army or the Marines. They are always recruiting.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Not OP

Or if you are really stuck, spend a couple of months jogging a few miles every day to get your health up and then join the Army or the Marines. They are always recruiting.

Spoken like someone fortunate enough to not be in a place of seriously poor fitness and health. In my case, I'm not saying it's anybody's fault but my own, it would take fare more than couple months to GET to a point where I could jog a couple miles each day, let alone to a point after that that would get me anywhere near acceptable fitness for the military.

And I'm not saying the military is a bad option for people who feel in a rut and have no ethical concerns about it (though it sounds like OP has other issues that preclude them from being deemed fit for service), I just want to point out the very...biased? I'm not sure what word I'm looking for here...notion that "a couple months of jogging" is an easy thing anybody can do and then be OK to give the military a shot.

Re: OP

[bringreligiontothewamwams]

If you don't think you are fit enough to join the military, join the airforce instead.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Best comment in this thread.