case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-05 03:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #2468 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2468 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 065 secrets from Secret Submission Post #353.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
kelincihutan: (Simon going mad)

[personal profile] kelincihutan 2013-10-06 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
You think. So you don't know.

So your friend is not bothering you, or terrorizing any gay people, or doing anything that hurts anybody. You just have this vague inclination they might think something that you don't like and so you're attempting to bait them into a discussion rather than actually talking to them like a grown up?

...Regardless of your friend's views on, quite honestly, anything at all I'm thinking that they aren't the problem here.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-06 11:31 am (UTC)(link)
Losing a stable friendship of a long time is a scary thing. I can't blame OP, especially over such a dealbreaker as gay rights. Especially when it's possible that OP is quietly homosexual herself and that's why this is so important to her. In that case, saying it outright might bring her under fire and cause very deep wounds.
kelincihutan: (Default)

[personal profile] kelincihutan 2013-10-06 01:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Way to miss the point. OP's friend hasn't done or said anything. There's just some vague inclination that they may or may not think something OP doesn't like. But nobody has the right to police anybody's private thoughts on any topic, for any reason. OP is manufacturing a complaint where none need exist. If their friend had said/done something, it'd be different. Until then, yeah, OP is acting ridiculous whether they are gay or not.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-06 01:22 pm (UTC)(link)
THIS!

(And I mean it this time!)

(Anonymous) 2013-10-06 01:20 pm (UTC)(link)
You're projecting. OP didn't say that she had any personal interest in the topic, much less that particular orientation.

As the secret's presented - and as she's represented herself in previous replies - she's not gay, quietly or otherwise. She's worked up over something that she neither has a personal interest in nor is even sure it exists/is a problem. She could just as easily be a social justice warrior who either has the wrong idea or is upset that the friend isn't just like her.

The friend could just as easily be avoiding the topic because the OP is a passive aggressive pill.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-06 01:20 pm (UTC)(link)
THIS

(Anonymous) 2013-10-06 01:21 pm (UTC)(link)
SA - sorry, posted this in the wrong place. NOT This.