[ SECRET POST #2471 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2471 ⌋

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Comments

[fscom]

08. http://i.imgur.com/mhKePtP.png

[kallanda_lee]

You know, people do not fit into neat little boxes. Just go with it and see where it takes you. There's nothing gross or wrong about what you're doing. Nor does it mean you now have to start having sex or something. It is what it is, no more no less, and doesn't affect who you are as a person.

[(Anonymous)]

OP

I try not to box myself in or anything but I have to admit it can be really hard, especially when all my asexual friends are always really adamant about how they don't feel anything sexual at all, it makes me feel like I don't fit in even though I don't have any interest in sex and i'm not attracted to anybody.
I guess i'm just not used to having these kind of feelings and I guess I don't really like having them very much. I'm going to try to stay positive about it, though.

[(Anonymous)]

This is nothing to be embarrassed about! Sexuality (even asexuality) takes many different forms and for most people is something that changes to varying degrees over your lifetime. There is nothing wrong with you for enjoying something sexual. There is nothing wrong with you for not having sexual attraction otherwise. It may have surprised you, and it may have shaken your definition of your identity, which can be scary! But it's just one more insight into who you are as you grow throughout your life, and that's okay. <3

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[elaminator]

Well said.

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[diet_poison]

This!

[(Anonymous)]

OP

thanks for the boost of morale. all the support is making me feel less confused, that's for sure.

[gamma_orionis]

...I'm just wondering what character out there has enough graphic self-cest fanworks about them for this to be a viable fetish to satisfy.

[vethica]

The Once-ler.

[(Anonymous)]

Human!Wheatley from Portal 2.

Pretty similar to what happened in the Once-ler fandom.

[(Anonymous)]

link from legend of zelda, too

[(Anonymous)]

you hate sexy stuff and repeatedly call it 'gross'

but asexuality is not about slut-shaming and definitely isn't the same thing as being sex-negative or having hangups about sex

oooookay

[vethica]

Finding sex gross on a personal level is slut-shaming now?

[(Anonymous)]

OP

well okay then. that was rude and out of nowhere. :(

[(Anonymous)]

*offers asexual popcorn*

[(Anonymous)]

I'm asexual but still have plenty of things that turn me on and masturbate. You are far from alone in that aspect, even if your change is via medication side effect. There is definitely nothing gross or wrong or bad about what you're going through. I understand the sudden shift could be confusing and is obviously upsetting you, but try to turn that frown upside down and realize that there is really truly nothing wrong with your feelings.

[(Anonymous)]

OP

thanks, that makes me feel better. i know i'm not alone since there are so many different kind of people out there but I guess it's nice to be able to hear from other people who feel the same way. I'm trying to stay positive, I've been thinking about it and I guess it's just so much easier to masturbate to get rid of the annoying feeling than it is to sit and try to ignore it, even though i don't enjoy it. I hope my medicine will stop making me feel that way all the time the longer i'm on it.

[baranohanayome.livejournal.com]

From one asexual to another, don't feel ashamed or embarrassed of your newfound sexual feelings. Sex might not be particularly interesting to some of us, but it's not gross or anything like that; in fact, it's a natural part of life for many people. If it's that distressing, though, perhaps look into getting a counselor to help you through your confusion and embarrassment.

[(Anonymous)]

The asexuality and bunnies background make me think I know who this is, but she's also a lot more eloquent than this. Then again, she's also smart enough to mask the way she writes. But then putting the bunnies makes no sense. Huh.

[(Anonymous)]

OP

well i hope you don't know who I am, boy would i ever be embarrassed if it turned out that you knew me. I used a bunny because i have a bad sense of humor and he looked like he is embarrassed and bunnies are a symbol for reproduction, i thought it was clever. that and it was cute.

[(Anonymous)]

Now, I'm on the opposite end of the sexual spectrum from you, admittedly, but I had a thought that might help put things into perspective for you.

There are many things that, when in a fictional/fantasy setting, turn me on like whoa. Put them in a reality context, it's an immediate squick. Like I get turned on reading non-con/dub-con stories, but in real life, lack of consent is horrifying to me.

Sometimes what turns people on when it's not reality has no bearing on what our real life feelings are, if that makes any sense. Just because you have a very specific kink doesn't mean you're any less asexual. It just means you're human. :)

[(Anonymous)]

honestly it sounds like the asexual community has fucked you up far more than having whatever sexual fantasies you're having, if simply having a sexual drive and masturbating makes you feel that disgusting and abnormal

I would say step away from asexual talk until you have a firm grasp of who you are, because some of those asexxies are batshit fucking crazy and will only do you harm

[(Anonymous)]

OP

I'm not a part of any asexual community, those are just my personal feelings toward sex in general. I just personally don't like it and I'm really uncomfortable with it.

[(Anonymous)]

Ha. I only ever have sexual arousals with medications too. Interesting. I see it as an annoying side effect, a bit suddenly need to be more specific about how I eat and sleep; but way better than not being on the medications so.

From my POV, the only thing that bothered me was "woah this is so entirely out of character I don't know what the hell is going on" aspect. Learn to scratch your itch, anon. There are plenty of identity policing assholes on either side of the fence, big fuck boo hoo to them.

You'll be cool. :)

[(Anonymous)]

sexuality is a myth fuck labels