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[Junjou Romantica]

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But that's a common trope used in fiction in general. The author shows us (sometimes through the eyes of another character) a scene that looks a certain way with the intent of having the readers draw a particular conclusion about it, only to reveal later on that that particular conclusion is wrong.

It is my opinion that isn't what happened in this series, or else if that was the intent, then it was not well-presented enough to be persuasive.

That's a different matter entirely and also one highly subjective, as this thread proves.

Well duh, that's why I prefaced it with "in my opinion". I'm confident in my belief, and the fact that others in this thread agree with me.

That's nice. I am confident in my belief too, and the fact that others in this thread and elsewhere too agree with me.

DA

Except this is a trope that happens a lot in BL series. Something that is clearly sexual assualt or rape is either handwaved by the character saying it wasn't or saying that if the character enjoyed it then it wasn't rape.

Sounds like you can only accept your own vision. So much that not only you negate what the canon says, you also negate what other readers say.

There are quite a few people in this thread saying that what happened in Junjou was rape, so it seems that, at least in this corner of fandom, you're the only one who thinks otherwise. DA above hasn't read the series.

Nice scare tactic there, good thing there's other corners of the fandom around.

That's fine, because I disagree with those corners as well if they believe what you do. I'm under no illusion that there aren't a lot of people out there who buy into these tropes; that's kind of why it's a problem.

It's a problem that people, who understand the difference between reality and fiction, don't agree with you? Oh boy.

So which argument are you going with? Is it "This wasn't rape and you're wrong for thinking it was" or "This is fantasy and you're wrong for being bothered by it"? You keep flip-flopping between the two, but they aren't the same thing. For my part? I believe a) what happened in Junjou was rape and b) even fantasy that romanticizes rape is problematic.

I was under the impression that the topic had moved on from just Junjou to other series as well, and we were generally speaking about those too.

My stance is: 1) What happened in Junjou wasn't rape and 2) Any fantasy that is recognized as a fantasy is never "problematic" in itself, if anything it's the people who don't understand it as a fantasy.

Also, nice putting words in my mouth bro - when have I told "you ou're wrong for thinking it was" or "you're wrong for being bothered by it"? I'm not OP but not even the secret says that.

I haven't read the series, no, but I don't understand why this is even being argued if the character himself unequivocally says that it wasn't rape. "Well, it LOOKED like rape" is kind of a ridiculous argument when the character states that it wasn't. That just means it was badly written, not that it was in fact rape.

Look at it this way. The character being assaulted protested at the time of the incident. When someone says no during sex, you are supposed to stop; if you continue, it is rape. You are repulsive for continuing when your partner protested. If the victim later tells you they were okay with it, does that change the fact that you chose to continue? No. You made the decision to override their protest. You couldn't have read their mind at the time and known how they really felt, you only had the information that was expressly given to you -- which was that they didn't want it -- and you made your decision based on this information. You committed rape.

Technically Misaki only protested before the incident happened. Then he was surprised at himself at how good it felt, and was even no longer scared at Usami when it ended, just highly embarrased.

Also nice lecturing on rape, but if I decide that I was okay with it, then I was never a victim of rape, nor was the person I had sex with a rapist. What's the point of saying that rape is only non-consensual if you're going to dismiss my decisions on my own consent anyway if they don't fit your views?

The moment he protested is the moment it should have stopped. If at this point the victim changes his mind and wants to have sex, the other person still has to wait for consent to be clearly given before proceeding. Possibly he wasn't sure, he might have even wanted it, but from the rapist's POV, no consent was given. The decision made by the rapist is what repulses readers.

Implicit consent doesn't exist, people.
Also if you're talking Junjou specifically, Usami does tell Misaki (before the sex happens) to yell if he's against it, which Misaki is in no way impeded to do, and would have been entirely logical had it been a case of rape as you say. But Misaki doesn't, and not even out of fear or pressure, just of out of his own stubborness. Therefore you could say the decision wasn't entirely without clue on Usami's part, too bad people tend to forget that.

Right. So it was his stubbornness that was to blame. He didn't fight hard enough, so even though he said no it's invalid because he didn't meet the rapist's standard of spoken consent.

Classic victim blaming.

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Sometime I wonder if you people twist people's words intentionally. It's the only rational explanation.

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