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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-26 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2489 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2489 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 08:38 pm (UTC)(link)
well that's exactly it. the shitty behavior and socially awkward bullshit SHOULD NOT be blown off with "I have Asperger's so I can't help it"... it has nothing to do with it. but so many people USE IT like that. that's my point. i hate seeing some one say "this guy is an asshole" in a situation and have that guy say "you're not allowed to say it to me, i can't help it, i'm autistic" - no, bullshit. autism is not a personality.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
It doesn't excuse it, no, but it makes it more understandable why they're doing it.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-27 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
It makes it more understandable, yes. But that doesn't mean they aren't assholes. e.g. Phineas Gage had severe brain injury but that doesn't mean he wasn't a complete and utter asshole to be around after his accident.
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[personal profile] pantswarrior 2013-10-26 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, my brother has been officially diagnosed, and honestly most of the time he irritates the crap out of me. I know he doesn't mean to, it's just that he doesn't know how to have conversations without turning them to anecdotes about My Little Pony or Spongebob, but that doesn't make conversations with him any more enjoyable. :P

(Also, he WOULD feel bad if he knew he was annoying, but I would feel bad for making him feel bad if I pointed it out, so I just sort of let my parents and the counselors and whatnot do their jobs. :P)
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-27 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
Softly tell him he's being annoying. Not in those exact words, but maybe steer the conversation away from those topics and onto other things.
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[personal profile] pantswarrior 2013-10-27 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
I try, but the problem is, er, I'm pretty socially inept myself and am really, really bad at trying to direct (or even maintain) a conversation.

Which may be why he always winds up veering off into MLP or Spongebob, actually, now that I think of it. -_-