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fandomsecrets2013-11-09 03:41 pm
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(Anonymous) 2013-11-09 09:28 pm (UTC)(link)To be honest, I have mixed feelings about my (biological) father. On one hand, I really want nothing to do with him because of what he did to me and what a crappy person he was when I was with him (neglected me, kidnapped me, abused drugs around me, etc). On the other hand, he has a new family now, and is a changed guy.
It's really really hard for a kid to be in that position. It really is. When there's both good and bad in a person who is supposed to love you, and you're expected to be able to deal with the worst that comes out.
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(Anonymous) 2013-11-09 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)Not my argument. I was actually trying to say that people are going to have disparate reactions. My feelings about my father are complex,and some people are going to have reactions like Junior's and some people are going to... not do much.
My point was more like, "You don't know because you've never been put in that position before." Which, judging by the OP's wording, I would hazard to guess is true.
They basically said, "I would never do what Junior did even if my dad were XYZ." And I was trying to say, "Maybe you would. Maybe you wouldn't. It's complicated."
And I likely poorly phrased it originally, or misrepresented myself.
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(Anonymous) 2013-11-09 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)Not at all, I can see how you took it to mean that, as I didn't take the time to set it up properly, especially with such a loaded statement. So I'm glad I explained myself a bit better.