[ SECRET POST #2504 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2504 ⌋

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Comments

[fleshisyummy]

Hmm, I've honestly never seen this. I've seen people delete their blogs before, but they were generally bad people. One of them was a guy who admitted to raping someone, and another was a white guy who continued to use n-word even after people told him to stop. He deleted his blog, and one of my friends took his url and he started whining and offering to buy the url from my friend for $300. Another was a guy who was sexually harassing young girls. I don't really feel like it was much of a loss?

I think people get kind of melodramatic about people deleting their tumblrs. No one is forced to delete their tumblr, and it's not that big of a deal if you do.

I don't like a canon slash ship in one of my fandoms, and I ship the main character with a female character he has shown attraction to instead. A lot of people don't like the couple, and I've seen people flat-out bash it all the time, but I've never received hate specifically geared toward me for shipping it or running a blog for the ship.

Then again, I'm not in large fandoms filled with notoriously douchey people, so things could be different elsewhere.

[insanenoodlyguy]

Trust me, the other sort exist too.

[fleshisyummy]

Yeah, like I said, it might happen in larger fandoms, but I'm not really all that involved in those. I have to admit that I'm generally not all that sympathetic toward the people "run off of tumblr." They're usually pretty nasty people for what I've seen.

I'm also kind of curious what people seem to think "hate" is. I've been pretty blunt and terse with people before, but I've never wished harm on anyone.

[(Anonymous)]

How about this.

A girl admits that she doesn't really see a popular ship (ie she doesn't see those two people together. nothing about their orientation just "I don't see it" ) She gets a whole flood of people telling her she's horrible she is probably unloved and pathetic and she should die . Like just a whole bunch of ugly comments like this and "HDU" comments for stating an opinion.

I've seen this go down.

Just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Yes , people DO wish harm. Just because you don't doesn't mean others do.

[fleshisyummy]

All I said that I've never seen this in any of my fandoms, and that the people I've seen that have deleted their blogs weren't all that sympathetic.

In any case, yeah, that's pretty horrible that happened, but kaijinscendre made this seem like it's a pretty frequent/common thing which it doesn't seem to be in all situations/fandoms.

I'm kind of curious what fandoms these are because whenever I see ship hate get tagged, people at most just tell the person to "fuck off" from what I've seen.

[(Anonymous)]

well I've seen it in some parts of sherlock fandom. Some parts of doctor who fandom.

Also I've seen people who were in fandom (like in general) making disgusting statements about what they considered "hipster blogs" . Like saying they should be killed.

[fleshisyummy]

Wow. You just gave me another good reason to stay away from the Sherlock and DW fandoms.

Yeah, I've seen that bizarre hatred toward "hipster blogs" too (although not as vitriolic). Hopefully, 99% of those people who make those statements are in the 13-16 crowd because it seems like it.

[(Anonymous)]

Confirmation Bias.

Just because that's all you've seen doesn't mean it's the only situation that exists.

Also it's not dramatic to want to quit if people are saying horrible things to you. Not everyone who gets bullied on Tumblr deserves it.

[fleshisyummy]

Uhhhhh, I never said it didn't happen. I just said I personally have never seen it.

I never said it was dramatic to quit. I just said it's dramatic when people act like deleting your tumblr is like the ~worst possible thing that could happen~ lol.

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe it's not the worst thing that can happen, but it is pretty fucking shitty to have an inbox full of anon hate and feel so harassed that you don't want to bother anymore.

Mean things said on line actually affect people.

It's not the fact that deleting the tumblr is the worst but the fact that a person just couldn't take a barrage of hate and decided to quit.

[fleshisyummy]

Well, I agree with you there. I definitely thing it's horrible if people have to deal with undeserved hate (which I've seen but not in a fandom context).

However, I do kind of laugh at the people who are all, "You made this guy delete his tumblr blog!! You're horrible and ruined his life!!" when the dude in question flat-out admitted to sexually harassing people and raping another person. He's probably an example of probably one of the worst people ever who ended up deleting his tumblr blog, though.

[(Anonymous)]

Ah okay....That second example is...yeaaaah.

making someone delete their blog isn't anything compared to rape.

I can see where you're coming from there.

I apologize for being so angry.

[fleshisyummy]

No, it's cool! I understand what you were trying to say, and I came off as pretty rude.