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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-08 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2532 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2532 ⌋

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Re: Bad Advice

(Anonymous) 2013-12-08 09:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Even if it is "because they like you", what a shitty thing to walk away with. There was once instance in my life where this was kind of true, but we purposely drove one another crazy because we "liked" each other, and even then it went too far and we stopped being friends. Which is a shame, really.

they're just jealous

That did help me once, but it was something I figured out on my own, and only in reference to a specific person who didn't tease me so much as pointedly snub me. I was in a class with her that I did well in, and I realized given the fact that I was called on every time I raised my hand, yeah, she probably did hate my guts.

loracarol: (spg)

Re: Bad Advice

[personal profile] loracarol 2013-12-08 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I had the same thing happen. :/

I mean, I can deal with it in fiction, as long as (1) an adult steps in when things go too far (2) there are moments of genuine niceness/good feelings among the characters (3) the teasing is meant in jest, and it is genuinely taken in jest by the person/people on the receiving end.

In real life, though, I don't think it works, because rl kids don't have adult authors that know what's "too far" or not. If that makes any sense. |D

And I'm glad that that worked out for you! It didn't for me, but you said that you discovered it on your own, and I think that is an important distinction. :)

Re: Bad Advice

(Anonymous) 2013-12-09 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, and I mean, it didn't even solve everything, but I certainly realized I wasn't the only one feeling down about stuff.
loracarol: (spg)

Re: Bad Advice

[personal profile] loracarol 2013-12-09 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
That makes sense.