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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-08 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2532 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2532 ⌋

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Re: Bad Advice

[personal profile] starphotographs 2013-12-08 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
...You know, when I'm getting accused of being overly aloof or something, I sometimes think that I was just following the golden rule. I don't like being bothered, so I don't really engage with people spontaneously.

I think it's an interesting rule, because the intent was probably "be a pollyanna and love everyone!," but since people have different interaction styles...
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Re: Bad Advice

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-12-09 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
That's the fallback of the golden rule - not everyone wants to be treated the same way. This is something I've had to deal with with friends who have very different personalities from mine.

I think the golden rule works if you use context and are smart about it. Like, don't be mean to people, don't be selfish, things like that...but specific interpersonal reactions? no, it really doesn't work for that.