[ SECRET POST #2532 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2532 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

Re: Bad Advice

[herpymcderp]

But that last one is actually fucking great advice. Learning to see your tormentors as pathetic or inferior to you is one of the most effective ways to train people to resist interrogation.

And hell, it's worked for me countless times.

Re: Bad Advice

[cassandraoftroy]

That's framing it very differently, though. That's not, "no one can make you feel bad unless you let them" -- it's, "these people are worthless losers and nothing they say or do matters." The latter is effective; the former is just victim-blaming.

Re: Bad Advice

[loracarol]

See, framed like that, it does sound kind of cool/useful.

But the other way, it just felt like it was always my fault for feeling bad, and if I was just a better person/stronger, I wouldn't be bullied/I wouldn't let it get to me.

Re: Bad Advice

[herpymcderp]

Then whoever said that to you was doin' it wrong. That's what that particular quote is supposed to mean, honestly.

Taking it out of context and throwing it at you is the bad part of that bad advice.

Re: Bad Advice

[loracarol]

I'll keep that in mind. :)