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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-08 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2532 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2532 ⌋

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Re: Another one. "Everyone is beautiful."

(Anonymous) 2013-12-09 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
Hmmm. I guess I can see where you coming from, but I don't really agree. This is more speaking for myself than anything, but when I talk to someone and really connect with them in a conversation, if they show any amount of kindness, I start to notice any physical features that I personally think are aesthetically pleasing to the eye. Likewise, if someone treats me very poorly, their physical features that would generally be considered unattractive become glaringly obvious to me. I'm also the type of person who will compliment someone's talents that have nothing to do with physical appearance if I notice them.

"Ugly" is kind of overused anyway. People use it so flippantly that it sort of lost all meaning and could be referencing someone who generally would be considered average or even good looking.
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Re: Another one. "Everyone is beautiful."

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-12-09 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not advocating calling people ugly--that's mean. I'm talking about not laying the "you're beautiful!" comment down like some kind of overused blanket.

Re: Another one. "Everyone is beautiful."

(Anonymous) 2013-12-09 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
Oh okay, then I agree. It's a bit annoying when someone's talents get overlooked just to be complimented on their appearance. Like if someone just got a job promotion for being hardworking and innovative, but their family decides to compliment them for "losing weight" instead.