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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-14 04:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2538 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2538 ⌋

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Re: saying goodbye to my grandfather

(Anonymous) 2013-12-14 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think there's ever anything we can really say that won't seem insufficient and shallow in the face of the death of a loved one. Our words just don't hold up to it. I think as long as you've put what thought and love you can into the letter - and it sounds like you have - you've done what you can; ultimately, there are no words you could find however long you searched that would be sufficient for this purpose. And I'm sure he'll appreciate that sentiment, and the meaning behind it. And like you say, it's better to say it, even in a way that's flawed, than to leave it unsaid. No one will think you crapped on it, and if they do... well, screw em.

I'm sorry for you, anon. It's always tough to be in a position like this. You have my sympathy. Just remember that it's okay to grieve and that however you do it, whatever you feel, it's ok. We are complicated, and this shit is complicated, and often shitty. You'll be okay. Again, I'm sorry for your loss.
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[personal profile] elaminator 2013-12-14 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry I don't have anything much to add, but what anon said is true; I don't think there's any right thing to say in this kind of situation because nothing will ever feel like enough. Do what you can; it'll be appreciated.