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⌈ Secret Post #2554 ⌋

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[Hobbit movies, Silmarillion]

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[Ripper Street]

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[Avengers]

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[Sekai-ichi Hatsukoi]

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[Game of Thrones]

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[Sherlock Holmes/Star Trek: The Next Generation]

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[Soukyuu no Fafner]

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[Attack on Titan]

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[Goo Goo Dolls]

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Plus, if this particular guy really is as far out of your league as you seem to think, maybe the better plan would be to look for a more realistic match.

Where did she say he's out of her league? That's kind of rude to assume.

I'm pretty much the complete opposite of his type, physically, and I can't imagine him ever finding me attractive.

herpymcderp did say if and as you seem to think as well.

I'm pretty much the complete opposite of his type, physically, and I can't imagine him ever finding me attractive

That's how I read that.

Agreeing with the other anon below that what you're assuming is pretty rude. For all we know the OP could be pretty but has a low self esteem. That's not as uncommon.

"Complete opposite of his type, physically" generally means at least pudgy, and if the dude is a player, he's probably on the good-looking side of things. It's all conjecture, but it's based on the things OP already said.

OP said nothing about being pudgy. "Complete opposite of his type" could mean anything. For all we know, the player could be into women with large breasts and OP is on the skinny side with a flat chest. It's up to a lot of interpretation.

"Complete opposite of his type" does not have to mean fat and fuck you for inferring that fat equals unattractive. "Complete opposite of his type" could mean she hates wearing skirts and he's a dude who likes a woman in skirts. Your assumptions are gross.

This is super OT, but I'm reminded of how gorgeous the Youtuber housewifeswag is even though she's technically overweight. Cause damn, does she pull it off really well.

even though

pull it off really well

You do realize how demeaning this sounds?

Sorry? I didn't mean it in a bad way.

It's still insulting. You're basically saying "she's pretty even though she's fat!" which is just, yeah. Insulting.

I used to be heavy set before I became a vegan (for moral reasons) and people used to tell me all the time "you're pretty but you'd be even prettier if you were skinny!" One of my ex-friends once told a guy she was trying to set me up with that I was "pretty despite my size", like that was a fucking compliment.

People don't seem to realize that fat =/= ugly and skinny =/= beautiful. I'm just as gorgeous now as I was when I was wearing jeans 7 sizes larger. That everyone felt the need to constantly add "in spite of my/her weight" with every confident was beyond disgusting.

*exhales* Didn't mean to rant but comments like this really upset me.

That woman you're talking about is not beautiful "even though she's fat". She's FAT and she's BEAUTIFUL. She's both and that's it.

Except I wasn't? I'm sorry if you read it like that, but that's definitely not what I meant.

That woman you're talking about is not beautiful "even though she's fat". She's FAT and she's BEAUTIFUL. She's both and that's it.

You're preaching to the choir here. That's what I meant.

I don't know, I know the internet likes to be all "Yeah, fat doesn't automatically mean ugly, rock on chubby gurllll!" but I've never, not once, ever, seen that same attitude in real life. The exact opposite, in fact. (I've spent the majority of my life as fat, so...not saying this without experience. Though I very well might just be one of those people that is ugly regardless of weight, etc)

The "internet" as whole doesn't say that. The prevailing attitude is still fat = ugly. Doesn't mean we can't point out the idiocy of saying" she's so pretty despite her weight."

You should spend some time where I come from, where sturdy figures in women are widely prized over slim ones, especially if they have junk in the trunk and strong thighs. Calling a woman "thick" is almost always a compliment.

where do you come from and how do I get there

Majority black community. You could always marry in! :D

Eh, I've had a group of stoned black guys follow me around a grocery store once asking over and over if I liked 'cottage cheese', that wasn't very flattering to be honest. (Cottage cheese being a derogatory term for fat)

Those same kinds of guys will give a skinny woman grief - calling her "bones" or asking if "a bitch is hungry" - because they're assholes. But, in my experience, the women they actually try to mack on (and get shut down hard, being losers) will most likely be quite thickset and dressed to show it off well.

lol wtf

OP could be super tall, and the guy she's into might go for really tiny girls.

That's why I said "seem to think". ...Pay attention.

And then you go on to say "look for a more realistic match". Unless you are talking about his personality and how he doesn't like comittment while OP wants that, then that comment is uncalled for. OP could still go for someone as attractive as her crush and have realistic expectations.

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