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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-31 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2555 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2555 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Attack on Titan/Shingeki No Kyojin]


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03.
[The Muppet Movie]


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04.
[Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen]


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05.
[Frozen]


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06.
[Once Upon a Time]


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07.
[Dissonance]


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08.
[Zooey Deschanel]


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09.
[My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic]


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10.
[Eona: The Last Dragoneye]














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Re: Op

(Anonymous) 2014-01-01 12:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I really think you might have found a good coping strategy. As others have said, Elsa was trying to suppress her feelings, not just trying no to show them. As long as you acknowledge how you feel to yourself and don't try and pretend to yourself it's not happening, there's nothing wrong with remaining calm on the outside.

I work in setting where we hear some incredibly disturbing and tragic stories. What we have to learn and practise is a professional detachment, getting emotional isn't going to help our patients, we need to be calm and help them, try and reduce their distress rather than add to the chaos and pain. That's exactly what you are doing in a way, imagine if your Mum went to see the Oncologist and they started crying? I really feel it's a useful skill OP, as long as you can express your feelings to someone else, as we would do with a supervisor for example.

Also you might find it helps to play the soundtrack? Those songs are fantastic and maybe the emotion in the songs will help you express how your feel, you know that thing when you sing along to something and the emotions can be really cathartic.