[ SECRET POST #2567 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2567 ⌋

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Tumblr and/or social justice in and of themselves aren't fandoms, unfortunately.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Out of curiosity, how long do you usually date someone that you are into before deciding what to do with the relationship (going steady/it won't work out/etc etc)? I realize this varies a lot depending on the people involved, but I noticed that I've never read about a frame of reference for this sort of thing.

[(Anonymous)]

You know when you know. If you're trying to pin down a date for when you SHOULD know whether you're interested. ..you're probably not that interested and should cut the person loose. If you end a date feeling like you want to see them again, you're on a good track, and that's all that matters.

[(Anonymous)]

This is honestly the best answer to this question. Life isn't a questionnaire that you fill out. There's no correct answer for something like this, because situations will vary. If you feel it for a person and want to continue seeing them and only them, then that would be when the monogamous relationship gets "serious". If this involves Facebook with that stupid "relationship status", whenever you feel that you want to see exclusively them, you should talk to that person so you can both update your status.

[herpymcderp]

About two days.

Yep, I usually know that quickly.

[nyxelestia]

I usually just stay in a relationship as long as it works and leave when it doesn't, and don't put too much effort into trying to predict it. Don't worry too much about trying to predict it or anything. But then, for me relationships come second to school and work, so if you consider a relationship to be a primary goal, then it's a different matter entirely.

Though I guess it also depends on what you are looking for out of the relationship (anything from "friends with benefits" to "marriage candidate"), as that can drastically affect the answer. If you go into each relationship hoping to find someone to eventually marry, then I'd give it an ample amount of time. If you're just looking for some fun, not so much.