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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-12 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2598 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2598 ⌋

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Re: tl;dr penis envy and your fucked up confessions

[personal profile] lynx 2014-02-13 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
Calm down, dude. The first thing is: It's good you're becoming aware of these things, it may sound cliché, but it is really the fist step to do your own gender justice.

There's no such thing as a perfect person. We all work on getting better, I've been calling myself a feminist for almost a decade, but I still shudder at some of the stuff I used to say some years ago. So breathe, ok?

Good men do exist, and feminist men also exist. There are a lot of things men also have to go through and fight against; but the gist of it is: The patriarchy is everyone's enemy - yes you benefit from it and will continue to do so, and yes it also fucked you up big time but at least you know what happened.

Caring about the particular wronging it did to you and your male peers is kind of natural and doesn't make you a MRA, mmkay? MRA is the dude that ONLY cares about that, and on top thinks it's the feminists fault and goes around crying misandry. Just stay open to these topics, don't try to steal the spotlight in women's feminist/safe spaces, and give yourself time.

Re: tl;dr penis envy and your fucked up confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-02-13 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
"Caring about the particular wronging it did to you and your male peers is kind of natural and doesn't make you a MRA, mmkay? MRA is the dude that ONLY cares about that, and on top thinks it's the feminists fault and goes around crying misandry."

Bam, nailed it. I may steal that definition, because it's dead fucking on.
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Re: tl;dr penis envy and your fucked up confessions

[personal profile] lynx 2014-02-13 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad it was useful to you, nonny! :D Steal away, no prob.