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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-12 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2598 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2598 ⌋

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Re: tl;dr penis envy and your fucked up confessions

[personal profile] lynx 2014-02-13 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
It's really normal, tbh, calm down ^^ Sure it feels nice fantazising with having a dick, it's not weird at all and even healthy if it gets you hot. (I'd do anything to have the ability to switch back and forth between physical sexes).

What it's not so healthy is hating your own vagina so much.

If you really want to work on this, I think you really should gather some courage and at least start to get familiarized with your vagina. Look at other vaginas, look at yours with a mirror (don't make comparisons, though!), read on it, on how it works. Don't approach to your vagina with a "this THING is for popping out kids"; because it's so much more than that. (I like mine, but I sure as hell don't want children). I've found learning about things and getting familiar with them helps a lot to stop thinking they're weird. Learn about how to maximize your pleasure and make possitive assosiations with the look and color and taste.

(Please don't go to bed with anyone before you've learned to like yourself. Maybe it works for some people, but in my own experience - and a lot of my friends'- that only alienates you further and will not get you a good lay.)

As for the dick part, try with packing? Look at yourself with tight pants and packing, for example. I'd advise also to get one of those fancy no-straps strapons to see how you look with a /hard/ dick as well, but you mentioned being a virgin, so don't go inserting anything there yet.

Good luck :3