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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-22 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2636 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2636 ⌋

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gondremark: (Default)

Re: You have a GIFT

[personal profile] gondremark 2014-03-23 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
I think Oscar Wilde was prognosticating the internet when he said "Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth."
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Re: You have a GIFT

[personal profile] elephantinegrace 2014-03-23 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
I mostly agree with it, but like the first anon below me said, there's the fact that only 7% of communication is words alone (which is what you're reading). The rest of it is facial expression, body language, tone, and I think hand gestures. So misunderstanding and our own personal biases (you think the person who told you that you're wrong on the internet is trying to be an asshole instead of speaking unclearly the same way that that random person who cut you off on the freeway was being a jerk instead of actually not seeing you), plus all that other stuff I said in my original comment, gets you somebody who feels invincible, and that seemingly consequence-free environment changes people. I act a different way to my boss than to my family, and differently to the girl I tutor than to the group of high schoolers I just had to give the sex talk to last week. None of that means that I am any more really myself any one of those situations, it just means that the thing I'm trying to get out of those interactions and the way I perceive our interactions changes given the person/people I'm communicating with.