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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-10 07:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #2655 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2655 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Archer]


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[Hannibal]


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Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-04-10 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I think you're being harsh. Some people can handle something like a whole blog dedicated to mocking them(they mentioned that I believe) ...some people can't. I probably could now, though it would still get to me some days, .....but like five , six years ago?"

No way I was already bullied this would have crushed me

So calling a person "pathetic" for being upset by that kind of thing. I can understand telling them to take a break from the internet, but maybe not putting them down.
Edited 2014-04-10 23:35 (UTC)

Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-10 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
judging from everything Noodles posts on here, i'm pretty sure it's his sincere belief that saying something like this is the best way to motivate someone to keep going

Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-04-10 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
oh... I guess..I just feel like you have no way of knowing how soemone will respond but , whatever.
insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2014-04-10 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
or get rid of them off this site so we don't have to do this thread again the next time they got something to whine about.

It's a pass/fail test. You learn to handle adversity or you don't.

Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Holy fuckballs I hate you so much. You are a horrible human being. I hope you only troll online with this bullshit and don't treat people in real life like this.

Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
Please be moar butthurt, anon.

Seriously the snowflakism I see on the Interwebs these days, it's amazing how there isn't a run on bubblewrap and insulating foam yet to keep all those delicate feefees from getting hurt.

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Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
I want to thank you for being my inspiration for last night.
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Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] feotakahari 2014-04-11 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
I'd love to see how and whether you'd handle it if you were mocked and shamed* by a large number of posters. Unlike OP, you could easily handle one troll, but with a bunch of them, my suspicion is that you'd pretend not to be bothered while taking it all to heart.

* Not to be confused with whined at, which seems to bring you pleasure.

Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
I honestly think it wouldn't bother him.

For better or worse, a lot of people maintain a strict separation between online and real life interactions. I suspect that noodles does not take the vast majority of internet interactions seriously; if he were mocked by the masses online, he would find humor in it rather than shame.

To hurt him, one would have to do something to him in the real world. And I don't think anyone here is willing to go to that extreme (which is a good thing, as that would be kind of obsessive and creepy).

Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 06:19 am (UTC)(link)
Anyn Rand immature bs.

Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 02:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, you're forced, FORCED to "do this thread again" when someone posts something you don't like. "won't someone pleez think about the Internetz???" Whine some more, troll.

Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude. It's Fandom Secrets. Let people come in and whine about something that's bugging 'em that they can't whine about in the real world. That's part of what this place is for.

Who made you gatekeeper? Sheesh, no wonder the comm's been shrinking the past few years.
badass_tiger: Charles Dance as Lord Vetinari (Default)

Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] badass_tiger 2014-04-10 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Shh, it's noodly. Let's just tell the OP to ignore him if they don't already know to and move on...

Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-04-10 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh..right...

why do I always want to assume the best of people?
badass_tiger: Charles Dance as Lord Vetinari (Default)

Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] badass_tiger 2014-04-10 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, that's not a bad thing. Besides, I think Noodly just wants to say what he think we all want to say but are too polite too. And to add to the anon above who replied to you, I know it doesn't work for everyone, but if I were in the OP's position, I'd certainly be motivated by his words, they'd be just what I need.
insanenoodlyguy: (Deal)

Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2014-04-10 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for admitting you all agree with me.

Not sarcasm. Seriously, you all agree with me but are politer.

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Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-04-10 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I see.

*shrug* I guess I sorta get that.

(though my first impulse towards OP was to want to hug the OP and give them a cookie and tell them it'll be okay, but I guess I'm biased because of personal experiences and being picked on IRL)

Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
I hope you are baiting him, because otherwise you are both shits.

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Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] arcadiaego 2014-04-11 09:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Because you're nice. :) It's a good thing, just sometimes not the most accurate one.

Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-04-11 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks.

Sometimes it can't hurt to be nice and optimistic, at least that's the way I see it. I'm harsh and sometimes mean when I'm emotionally upset or when someone does something REALLY put of line, like the anon downthread who made a nasty comment.

but i dunno most of the time I try to be nice.

Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-10 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
so it's ok for someone to be an asshole if they're always that way and everyone knows it? what kind of bullshit reasoning is that?
badass_tiger: Charles Dance as Lord Vetinari (Default)

Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] badass_tiger 2014-04-10 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Didn't say it's okay. Just saying we're not going to do any good yelling at him because we know he'll do as he pleases. Instead, we'll tell the OP to ignore him so the OP can listen to everyone else instead.
insanenoodlyguy: (Deal)

They can't

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2014-04-10 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I put an insult in the subject line. They have already read it.

One is all it takes apparently so they might not even be here anymore.

Re: You weak pathetic fool

(Anonymous) 2014-04-10 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you really think that saying, "hey, you're an asshole" is going to stop him? Or, fuck, anyone?

It's not that it's okay. It's that at some point, you have to learn that there are assholes in the world and that there's very little you can do about it. You can either brush them off, or you can take them to heart and give them more power.

Re: You weak pathetic fool

[personal profile] the_missing_y 2014-04-11 12:10 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think "hey, you're an asshole" is going to stop anyone.
BUT I do think empathy can, and should be encouraged.

Calling someone an asshole is in itself encouraging assholery. But I do believe that if you encourage empathy, the desire to make people's lives easier and happier, in any small way, can be infectious.

Maybe I'm wrong, but I feel happier with my approach than I would simply calling people an asshole
Edited (added more bollocks.) 2014-04-11 12:14 (UTC)