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fandomsecrets2014-04-10 07:16 pm
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Re: You weak pathetic fool
No way I was already bullied this would have crushed me
So calling a person "pathetic" for being upset by that kind of thing. I can understand telling them to take a break from the internet, but maybe not putting them down.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-10 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)Re: You weak pathetic fool
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It's a pass/fail test. You learn to handle adversity or you don't.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 12:38 am (UTC)(link)Re: You weak pathetic fool
(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 03:18 am (UTC)(link)Seriously the snowflakism I see on the Interwebs these days, it's amazing how there isn't a run on bubblewrap and insulating foam yet to keep all those delicate feefees from getting hurt.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 04:47 am (UTC)(link)Re: You weak pathetic fool
* Not to be confused with whined at, which seems to bring you pleasure.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 04:52 am (UTC)(link)For better or worse, a lot of people maintain a strict separation between online and real life interactions. I suspect that noodles does not take the vast majority of internet interactions seriously; if he were mocked by the masses online, he would find humor in it rather than shame.
To hurt him, one would have to do something to him in the real world. And I don't think anyone here is willing to go to that extreme (which is a good thing, as that would be kind of obsessive and creepy).
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)Who made you gatekeeper? Sheesh, no wonder the comm's been shrinking the past few years.
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why do I always want to assume the best of people?
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Not sarcasm. Seriously, you all agree with me but are politer.
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Re: You weak pathetic fool
*shrug* I guess I sorta get that.
(though my first impulse towards OP was to want to hug the OP and give them a cookie and tell them it'll be okay, but I guess I'm biased because of personal experiences and being picked on IRL)
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-11 06:20 am (UTC)(link)Re: You weak pathetic fool
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Sometimes it can't hurt to be nice and optimistic, at least that's the way I see it. I'm harsh and sometimes mean when I'm emotionally upset or when someone does something REALLY put of line, like the anon downthread who made a nasty comment.
but i dunno most of the time I try to be nice.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-10 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)Re: You weak pathetic fool
They can't
One is all it takes apparently so they might not even be here anymore.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-10 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)It's not that it's okay. It's that at some point, you have to learn that there are assholes in the world and that there's very little you can do about it. You can either brush them off, or you can take them to heart and give them more power.
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BUT I do think empathy can, and should be encouraged.
Calling someone an asshole is in itself encouraging assholery. But I do believe that if you encourage empathy, the desire to make people's lives easier and happier, in any small way, can be infectious.
Maybe I'm wrong, but I feel happier with my approach than I would simply calling people an asshole