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F!S Anon Meme (the ??th)

Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with recaptchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

(Today's post is below.)

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I want to draw some really smutty fanart, but my husband will fucking murder me (not literally) if he ever finds out about it.

I hate feeling repressed by circumstance like this.

[(Anonymous)]

I really don't want to assume anything about your relationship. You know your situation better than anyone and if your marriage is otherwise a happy and healthy one, all the better for you. But if this is going beyond not being able to draw smutty fanart and he's controlling other areas of your life, I really hope you're able to get out.

[(Anonymous)]

He's not really controlling in other aspects of my life, because I wouldn't let him. He knows where his boundaries lie.

He just kind of gets really pissy, and jealous.

[(Anonymous)]

Again, I don't want to judge a situation I know nothing about, but I personally find that weird on his part.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

That does not sound good. A person should not get really pissy and jealous over you drawing something. Also you should never be stopped from doing something out of genuine fear of your spouses reaction.

He obviously doesn't know where boundaries lie if he gets upset over fanart.

[(Anonymous)]

That sounds like a seriously unhealthy relationship tbh.

[(Anonymous)]

wtf why would he...

[(Anonymous)]

This confuses me. Can you elaborate on the nature of his objection a bit? I can't figure out what about that would bother him.