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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-15 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2660 ]


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FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
I had sex last night. My partner had four erections and three orgasms with me in the space of half an hour (by the fourth his body was still into but he had stuff to do before bed).

He usually comes twice when we have sex. He's the first man I've ever met who could do that, have more than one orgasm in the space of 5 minutes, I thought that was incredible enough. Four is pushing it even for him. He seems to be getting... more virile with age? We're in our 40s.

Part of me feels smug. He never did this before me (he says). I even can credit FS last night as I tried a trick I read on FS. Putting lube inside the condom before I rolled it on. He reallllllly liked that.

Also lots of bum play and he asked me if I would buy a strap on. Then he sat on my lap and we pretended I already had one. I keep meaning to get around to buying it but we're doing so well just fantasizing and I don't want to burst the bubble.

I had zero orgasms btw. Bah. I really need to buy a new vibrator (I use it with him at the end and the batteries ran out).

Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
...what was your question?

Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
OP
How can a man can have four erections in half an hour? We weren't doing anything tantric or odd.

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Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

[personal profile] honk 2014-04-16 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
ive been spending sexual time w a bloke friend of mine lately & every now and then he can go twice, one right after the other, but its p rare cuz his refractory period usually kicks in

maybe your guy just doesnt have much of one, or maybe youre doin something right for him. i know lots of dudes who can blow multiple loads in a short period of time under the right circumstances

Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, thanks. This is the first guy I've seen this with. But it's quite common?

I've heard of refactory periods, and thought they were supposed to increase with age. So far not.

I was just was a little surprised. I had to reassure him last night I didn't think it was weird. As if. If anything, I should take it as a compliment.

It's odd we don't hear much about male multiple orgasm, isn't it? I actually thought he was almost unique.
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Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

[personal profile] honk 2014-04-16 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
i dont think its very common actually, i just happen to know a lot of guys who can keep it up & have another go no problem. you still lucked out tho for sure. most guys (afaik) cant do that. thumbs up

Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
No, we'll do thumbs up next time we're in bed. Gotta save something to look forward to, you know?

Sorry, sorry.

But thanks for the useful information. It seems there's more guys than I thought who can do this.

Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
It's quite uncommon, more's the pity.

Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-04-16 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
Actually it's not very common for men to be able to have multiple orgasms. There's a ...somewhat weird online subculture devoted to it, which I've seen a bit of, that tries to compile tricks and techniques to orgasm without ejaculation. Your partner isn't really having a true multiple orgasm by that definition.

Anecdotally, I once had a friend in high school who claimed he could orgasm multiple times without losing his erection or ejaculating, but he would be the only irl example of someone I know who could do this.

Though I haven't ever read any single scientific paper that touched on the topic, there is plenty of evidence that the refractory period is highly tied to heart and vascular health in mean. It may be that this dude happens to have a very good circulatory system, but you should also keep in mind that refractory periods are variable and it is considered normal for it to take anywhere from 1-20 minutes depending on age.

Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
I kind of doubt all of this. Sounds like someone's fantasy. The refractory period is usually about 15-20 minutes even if it's a horny teenager. I call bullshit.

Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
Eh, highly uncommon though the situation might be, nothing about the write-up strikes me as particularly fantastic.

Re: FAR TOO MUCH INFORMATION & question about erections

(Anonymous) 2014-04-16 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
How many women fantasize about their partners having three orgasms within half an hour while they get zero, though? Doesn't sound like my cup of tea, to be honest. ;P