[ SECRET POST #2742 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2742 ⌋

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Comments

People who make excuses for their spouse/partner

[(Anonymous)]

"Oh, he's an amazing guy and so sweet! Except that he doesn't help out with the household chores, ever."

Yeah, that's not an amazing sweet guy, he's an asshole and you've lowered your standards so that somehow, being completely useless around the house and thinking that housework = women's work is fine and dandy.


"He's so good to me and we talk about everything... but he gets really jealous when I talk to other guys and doesn't want me to have any male friends."/

Yeah, also an asshole. Being really good to you means not inflicting his insecurity on others.

I could go on and on and on...

Re: People who make excuses for their spouse/partner

[(Anonymous)]

He's a great guy, he only ever hits me when its my fault...

That one I heard so often growing up. Along with the classic "no, he's great and took me to the ER when I broke my arm after ... ... ... falling".

Re: People who make excuses for their spouse/partner

[(Anonymous)]

DA

To lump not helping with the chores and other similar issues in with domestic violence seems tasteless. Maybe that's just me.

Re: People who make excuses for their spouse/partner

[philstar22]

Agreed. Blaming domestic violence victims is extremely tasteless. Especially because abusers know exactly what to say and do to make their victims blame themselves. Not at all the same thing.

Re: People who make excuses for their spouse/partner

[(Anonymous)]

Not helping with the chores, yeah, entirely different ballpark.

Getting jealous of any male friends his SO has, on the other hand? That is a warning sign.

Re: People who make excuses for their spouse/partner

[(Anonymous)]

Agreed. It's exactly what happened to my mom.