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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-11 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2747 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2747 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Hobbit/Thorin Oakenshield]


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[The Vincent Black Shadow]


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[El Goonish Shive]


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[Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries]


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[Penny Dreadful]


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[Supernatural]


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[Blake's 7]


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[Edge of Tomorrow/Tom Cruise]


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[Quirk]


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18. [WARNING for rape]



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(Anonymous) 2014-07-11 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
You sound male. (Not entirely joking)

(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
Why do you think that? Honestly curious. Rape fantasy is popular among women and men both, with both of them as the "victims".

(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Why do you think that? Honestly curious. Rape fantasy is popular among women and men both, with both of them as the "victims".

Different anon than above: are YOU male? You sound like it too... Or are you the OP?

(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 03:26 pm (UTC)(link)
You and the other cunt anon can go rape each other.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
Because women who have rape fantasies tend not to actually want to be raped in real life.

OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 08:57 am (UTC)(link)
I don't to want to be raped in the bad sense, I want to be raped in the good sense, like in fiction.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 11:26 am (UTC)(link)
That's not rape. That's not wanting to take responsibility for your sexual conduct.

Here's from a survivor of actual sexual abuse: The right for my No to be respected is more important than your wish not to say "yes". Fuck you.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 11:34 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. I thought that was rape too because the feminist fandom discussions I follow on tumblr say it is.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 03:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Listening to tumblr was your first problem.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT: A and B have sex. A shows clear consent, B does not but totally wants it. That's obviously not rape (both parties were consenting). But of course, A has no real way of knowing that it wasn't rape, so that's shitty.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I think seeing that your partner is enjoying the act is a pretty faithful indicator that they're not being raped. Just a thought, hmm.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:04 am (UTC)(link)
There are more ways of showing consent than verbally, that's true. The clarity of signals is on a sliding scale. The closer to "explicitly, enthusiastic and verbal" you get, the more sure you can be that you're not committing rape.

If you don't believe that people accidentally rape other people, you really ought to read a few survivor stories.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
But I'm not going to make the first move, so I'm not going to rape anyone. In fact I want someone to pounce me already.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:30 am (UTC)(link)
If I enjoyed it then I wasn't raped. Don't try to speak for me, cunt.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:47 am (UTC)(link)
I still think that if your partner is enjoying the act, that's a very faithful indicator that they're not being raped. And if, you know. They don't consider themselves raped. But you don't sound like the type that accepts different opinions.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Except no?

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:07 am (UTC)(link)
See above. If you're not getting a clear signal of consent (and they are wide and varied), then you're shit out of luck for telling whether you're actually raping someone or not.

Some things many people think are clear signals of consent that actually aren't:
- Being in a sexual relationship with someone
- Saying no but then clearly going along with it anyway
- Being currently in a sexual encounter

These all might indicate consent in any given situation, but "might" really isn't good enough if the consequence of being wrong is accidentally raping someone.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:16 am (UTC)(link)
I do all that stuff and I've never been raped. Stop pushing your retarded beliefs on me.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:18 am (UTC)(link)
If I don't think I've been raped, then you need to stop worrying? I'll dump your indecisive ass if you need to stop asking every stupid meaningless thing and don't fuck me already.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:24 am (UTC)(link)
If I go along with it that means I gave my consent. If I said no earlier, it means I changed my mind. Please do not try to speak for me, only I decide on my own consent and I'll give it to whoever I please, however I please and whenever I please. Even if I said no before, it's my right to change my mind at any moment and turn it into a yes. It's my sexual life so mind your own business.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:26 am (UTC)(link)
I like how you try to speak for everyone.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 11:54 am (UTC)(link)
That's because that's how most people express their consent, genius. If you want to play the special snowflake, go do it somewhere where you don't piss on other people's sexual lives.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-13 12:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Pro-tip: just because you see it as rape doesn't mean everyone else has to.

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Go rape yourself, Cunt.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-12 04:21 pm (UTC)(link)
You, self important piece of shit, are the problem here. How DARE anyone have an opinion that didn't jive with yours?