[ SECRET POST #2759 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2759 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Things you've been thinking about lately

[(Anonymous)]

Friendship and standards for friends. Like how people stuck in situations or locations where they have a limited potential friend pool make friends with people who they normally would not (not meant in a bad way, btw). And wondering if my standards for friends are too high and myself are too low or I just don't like dealing with people.

Re: Things you've been thinking about lately

[(Anonymous)]

I've thought about this too. I think I might be too picky about who I want as friends. It's only really started in my mid 20s after a string of good and not so good friends. And I find it's getting more difficult to make friends in general, not even just finding people who meet my standards. I know it's because of me, but I'm not sure if I want to lower my standards and potentially end up with a bad friend and the drama that comes with it.

Re: Things you've been thinking about lately

[grausam]

I wonder about this as well.

One of my friends can never be alone, so he surrounds himself with sometimes shitty people out of convenience, just to always have somebody around to hang out. Kinda comes off as shrewd, but for some any company are like any other entertainment- and others are just not as good at handling people/have other hobbies.

Although it does help knowing friends who are sociable, it's much easier to meet others that way, even in a limited pool.

Re: Things you've been thinking about lately

[(Anonymous)]

And wondering if my standards for friends are too high and myself are too low or I just don't like dealing with people.

Ugh, this. I've come to decide that the real issue is friendship is sort of like relationships - everyone wants different things. I was in a group of friends who I had higher expectations of than what was realistic - but the thing is, they were all like that to each other, too. And cool with that, because that's the sort of friendship they wanted. I didn't, so I left the group.