[ SECRET POST #2806 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2806 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Five Nights at Freddy's]


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03.
[Star Trek, MCU, Batman Begins]


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04.
[Twilight Saga]


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05.
[Xenosaga]


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06.
[Doctor Who]


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07.
[Great British Bake Off]


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08.
[Law & Order: Criminal Intent]


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09.
[Minecraft]


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10.
[Macklemore]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 044 secrets from Secret Submission Post #401.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

10. http://i60.tinypic.com/xee838.png
[Macklemore]

[(Anonymous)]

Eh, I don't see how having a crush on a celebrity is any different from having a crush on a real-life person from afar. Though I guess that doesn't help if you personally knew your other crushes.

My point is that it's just a crush. Not some serious life commitment. As long as it's not interfering with your ability to function in life, there's nothing wrong with getting a little giddy at the thought of someone else. Even if you don't personally know them.

+1

[elaminator]

Having a crush doesn't need to be a big deal! People have crushes all the time. (Maybe it isn't usual behavior for you, but at least it's no biggie? Nothing to worry about.)

They come and go, and even if they don't go and you always feel a little bit of excitement or a flutter of affection when you see the person, that isn't such a terrible thing.

[kallanda_lee]

I can sort of understand.

I am crushing on Sebastian Stan. I haven't really "crushed" on anyone since I was 20.

[(Anonymous)]

Meh. I get crushes at the drop off a hat. They go away eventually, no biggie.

[case]

I have an embarrassing crush on Eminem and it has been like literally 15+ years don't even feel bad anon (and I'm asexual, so it's even weirder. I don't want to sleep with him, I just want to give him a hug really badly or something)

[(Anonymous)]

Eminem really has an interesting atmosphere so I get this.

[tyger66]

You and I have very similar feelings on this matter.

[(Anonymous)]

I really hate his haircut. His face doesn't help matters.

[diet_poison]

yeah, I think that haircut is a little unfortunate.

[(Anonymous)]

Aww, c'mon. Someone posts that they have a crush on the man, and you feel the need to come in and diss his looks?

[diet_poison]

idk, anon, if I had a crush on someone, someone else telling me they found him unattractive wouldn't change a damn thing.

[(Anonymous)]

You definitely missed the point of my comment.

[diet_poison]

Sorry, anon.

[(Anonymous)]

I really like his haircut.

[(Anonymous)]

I LOVE crushes. I'm always sad when I don't have one.

Sit back and enjoy the ride, OP...

[(Anonymous)]

I get the awkward feeling OP. It's not so much having the crush, it's more like having the crush on someone who is *famous*--you'll most likely never meet them and over 1000 people probably share similar feelings for that person.

I always feel embarrassed if someone were to find out/ have an irrational fear that I'll meet the person and they'll find out and I'll just come off like a creep.

But seeing as how that won't happen, you'll move on. And if you don't, enjoy the wave of emotion and let it rock.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm going to post this here because it's relevant and I'm way too embarrassed to ever submit this as an actual secret, and have an irrational need to say it SOMEWHERE. I've had a massive crush on a celebrity for almost a year now. I had the rare opportunity to meet this person at an event, and started talking to them about a major interest we share, and 6 months later we have been emailing and pseudo-flirting and it is very nearly ruining my life as we are both married. HELP ME FS, I AM AN IDIOT

[(Anonymous)]

Well, um... if you recognize that the problem isn't having a crush on a celeb, it's that you're possibly sharing a certain intimacy (not necessarily physical) with another person outside your marriage. If you were doing this with, say, a coworker, or a random person you met in a store, it really wouldn't be any better. It's not the crush, it's the way you've chosen to react to it.

I don't think there's anything wrong with having a famous or semi-famous friend. But if you're "fulfilling" some "intimate need" that isn't with your spouse (mind you, I'm not referring to a dream like skydiving, or being a writer, etc), then you may want to step back a bit and decide what's missing from your marriage. And also ask yourself if your marriage is worth putting at risk over your possibly inappropriate actions. Do you have any respect for your spouse, and for yourself? It's one thing to talk to a celeb, it's entirely another to ignore all boundaries here.

[(Anonymous)]

the anon you're posting under

Kind of echoing the poster above me, you've got to look at your relationship with your SO and address it. As in, look at the relationship, and figure out what's wrong, what's missing, what you want, what you have/had and work on that. I don't know what kind of relationship you have, but depending on how open/honest your are with your SO, talk to him/her. Work on it together. Or just work on it yourself. IDK.

If your emails are getting flirty, put an end to that. Be real. He's married. You're married. And it's dishonoring/disrespecting both of your spouses. Some people might think flirting is harmless, but you're saying it's ruining your life, so you know what you've got to do.

Good luck poster. Keep it real.

[(Anonymous)]

am I crazy or Does Macklemore resemble Till Lindemann from Rammstein?

[(Anonymous)]

I totally read the secret as "three girls I knew in prison". Sorry!

That said, crushes happen all the time. I'm 46 and mom to three and I crush on celebs still!

OP

[(Anonymous)]

That's fantastic.