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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-01-11 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2930 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2930 ⌋

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Re: TW: adultery, self harm

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-01-11 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmm. I would hesitate to call this rape, but there's a strong possibility that if you truly can't remember anything about this... there might have been some degree of manipulation on his part.

Now, bearing in mind that during periods of trauma and stress it's not unusual to have impaired memory, I wouldn't say that it's absolutely certain that there was no consent involved or even that you might not have initiated some of it. But even if that was the case, it would be very dubious consent indeed, and it definitely wasn't something anyone should have taken you up on. At least not anyone with a sense of responsibility.

tl;dr this was a bad decision at best, sexual coercion at worst.

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

(Anonymous) 2015-01-11 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
This was a bad decision at best, sexual coercion at worst.

EXACTLY!

And whichever of these it was, this fucker needs to face some consequences.

Re: TW: adultery, self harm

(Anonymous) 2015-01-11 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't want to rain on your Fuck Yeah Justice parade, but what consequences are you referring to? If this is in the U.S., 17 is over the age of consent for most states. So actually, there are quite a few places where it's legal for a 30-something man to have sex with a 17 year old girl. It's arguably not moral and in this case I'd say it's definitely not moral because of the teacher/student relationship, but it's not necessarily illegal.

Unless the anon is prepared to go the whole nine yards and talk to the police, it's unlikely he'd be fired, either. Not unless his employer is unusually conscientious.