fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #2938 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2938 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.

__________________________________________________

02.

[Constantine]

__________________________________________________

03.

[Dragon Age]

__________________________________________________

04.

[Merlin]

__________________________________________________

05.

[Pokemon]

__________________________________________________

06.

[The Americans]

__________________________________________________

07.

[Doctor Who]

__________________________________________________

08.

[Twisted Toyfare]

__________________________________________________

09.

[Black Books]

__________________________________________________

10.

[World of Warcraft]

Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 046 secrets from Secret Submission Post #420.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Flat | Top-Level Comments Only

the guy i'm kinda seeing had wanted to talk about dating on new year's day. we hadnt seen each other the two weeks prior because of winter break so i think he missed me a lot. he was really affectionate. new years comes and goes and he didnt say anything about dating, and i dont think he forgot, so i figured he changed his mind. which is fine, but i wish he would have re-set boundaries in our relationship and said it directly. not saying anything at all has been hard on me. i keep thinking he's getting bored or sick of me, which hurts.

i told him when we first started fooling around that i wasnt going to catch feelings that i knew wouldnt be reciprocated. but after he expressed interest i thought that opportunity was available to me. overall it seems like a lot of effort to wedge drama in between us unnecessarily.

anyway, on saturday we were hanging out and he slipped away for an hour to hang out with his other friends, which i was 1000% fine with. i always am. he came back with one of his friends and they hung out the whole time. then we bumped into some more of his friends so i told him i'd let him spend time with them without me, that i was gonna roam around, etc. but that i'd be back at our meeting place to hang later. he said ok, he'd be back too. by the time i got back, one of my other friends told me that my guy had left and told my other friend to tell me goodbye. he didnt even text me himself, he just flaked on me and it really upset me. i feel like he doesnt respect me and that he doesnt like me anymore, and hes doing a bad job at letting me know this with the least amount of pain involved as possible. his new years flake has given me a complex and i feel like that is pushing him further away.

Sounds like you're developing feelings despite trying not to. It might not be a full blown crush yet, but you're in deep enough where this is no longer a casual thing. Do yourself a favor and put some distance between you and this guy and look for other friends/partners.

Get distance. Now. It's a classic move guys make to get out of anything serious. Act like a dick until you're the one who cuts the ties. So do it, before you get too attached.

He's not interested. Move on and forget him.

Sounds like to me that when you told him that you weren't going to 'catch feelings' that you pretty much told him that it wasn't serious. So if anyone pushed him away, it was you.

we started out just fuckbuddies. he was fresh out of a relationship and still had feelings for her. he asked me what i wanted out of our relationship because he said he wanted to work things out with his ex and thought it wouldnt be fair to me if we got more involved until things got sorted. i absolutely did not push him away. he asked me in late december if i wanted to date and i said yes. but he never followed through.

yeah except, none of this. He either freaked out and is being a twat about it or is an oblivious idiot. Either way, it's not on her.

[ SECRET POST #2938 ]

Re: Fuck everything

Re: Fuck everything

Re: Fuck everything

Re: Fuck everything

Re: Fuck everything

Re: Fuck everything

Re: Fuck everything