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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-02-26 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #2976 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2976 ⌋

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[Homestuck]


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[NCIS: Los Angeles/Hawaii Five-0]


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[Left Shark (Katy Perry? Super Bowl?) and Bad-Dragon .com]


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(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
I'm biromantic heteorsexual, too, anon. I love having a romantic relationship with a woman. All the kissing, cuddling, silly lovey-dovey feelings, spending time gazing into each others eyes and wanting to hold hands all the time. It's awesome. But the only way I get off sexually is if there's a dick involved. It sucks because I actually prefer women romantically and I always feel crappy that a vagina in the face is a turn off for me. I'm not really good with my hands, either, so I getting a partner off is difficult for me.

So I understand where you're coming from, but I'm actually really happy they went with flat out bisexual. It was awesome to see that headcanon made into actual canon.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
This is honestly weird. How on earth are you equating oral sex with a sexual orientation? Swallowing dick makes me uncomfortable but that doesn't mean I'm suddenly biromantic gay.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 07:20 am (UTC)(link)
DA

I don't think they're equating oral sex with orientation, but using oral sex as one example of the ways female sex organs turn them off on the whole. If your dislike of swallowing dick extends to dislike of dick entirely, then yeah, I'd question your orientation.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 02:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Because I'm not sexually attracted to the V. I like the D. It's how I get off sexually. That's where my sexual orientation, what I am attracted to for sex, lies.

My romantic orientation is for both. I fall in love more easily with other women than I do men, but I'm not turned off from a romantic relationship by one or the other and frankly enjoy it more than I do sex most of the time.

I really don't see why this is hard to understand. Sex and Love/Romance are not the same thing and are not always connected to one another. Someone having sex with 20 people over the course of however long does not mean that they are in love with all 20 of those people (if any of them). They could easily just like to sleep around because they like sex and there's no attachment involved. Well, the reverse is true as well. There are people out there who date and get into relationships with other people that they genuinely care for, have a connection with, and don't necessarily have any sexual attraction for. Asexuals are the biggest example group I can think of.

Not being sexually attracted to someone =/= not being romantically attracted to them

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 04:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Such. Hard. Bullshit.

You are making it hard for actual bisexuals to get any respect with this made up pretend sexuality. You're either a try hard fake or you're a closet case.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 07:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude, just because you don't have experience with something doesn't mean it isn't real. You don't have the right to tell someone else that how they say they feel isn't actually how they feel.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah right. At some point, people have to get real.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yup...

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Shut up.

Love,

An Actual Bisexual

(Anonymous) 2015-02-27 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Fuck off, you Tumblr phony.

(Anonymous) 2015-02-28 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
have you not ever heard of a strap on

(Anonymous) 2015-02-28 05:39 am (UTC)(link)
hell yeah strap-ons for the win!!!