[ SECRET POST #3053 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3053 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Kid (Charlie Chaplin)/Starsky & Hutch ("Gillian")]


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03.
[Network]


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[Sci-Fi/Fantasy]


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05.
[In Plain Sight]


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06.
[Captain America: Civil War]


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[Samurai Warriors]


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08. https://i.imgur.com/Tr3NZUD.jpg
[NSFW image (shirtless 16 year old? girl), discussion of underage sexuality]


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[Joss Whedon]
















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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Of course sixteen year olds can have sexuality. That doesn't mean adults (and I mean, people say over 20/21, not 18-year-old) should be having sex with them.

I mean, can you really imagine a 30 year old accepting boundaries or a "no" from a 16-year-old? Every older person who tried to hit on me as a teenager treated me like a child. A child they wanted to make out with, or have sex with, but still a child who wasn't supposed to say no to adults or speak for herself.

[(Anonymous)]

I can imagine all kinds of people accepting boundaries and nos. Heck, if anything, I'd think the 16-year-old in that situation would be the one too horny and obsessive to take "Look, I'm 14 years older than you" for an answer.

(And please don't tell me teenagers never want to bang older people. I did. You did. For further reference, please see... well. Fandom.)

[(Anonymous)]

Most adults wouldn't want to spend that much time around a teenager anyway because teenagers ARE immature and they ARE obnoxious and people who are significantly older don't tend to want to put up with that.

[(Anonymous)]

The older I get, the less tolerance I have for teenage bullshit. The thought of someone my age voluntarily choosing to hang around a teenager/teenagers in any context beyond familial/work/mentoring etc obligation would make me deeply disturbed.

You don't have that emotional connection to teenagers. If you do, then you clearly never matured past being one.

[(Anonymous)]

All of this.

[(Anonymous)]

Exactly. I do a lot of work with teenagers (mentoring/volunteering) and they're just on a completely different emotional level than adults.

Now, I could see someone 21/22 or thereabouts being interested in a teenager, because some teenagers are mature and some young adults still aren't that mature, but any older than that? Nope.

[(Anonymous)]

So all my memories of being a young teenager and trying to convince older men to leave me alone (while feeling like I couldn't be too rude because they were adults) while they ignored me and I tried to find an excuse and an exit, were actually of me being horny and obsessive and THEM trying to talk me out of it?

The sixty-something decidedly not hot married guy who kept trying to kiss 15yo me at a party while I avoided the heck out of him wouldn't have done it if I hadn't tried to make him, right? Granted, his refusal to take no for an answer probably didn't have much to do with his age, because he tried to make out with my mom, too.

[(Anonymous)]

No one's saying there aren't creepy and predatory people in the world. Just that age of consent is more complicated than turning on the Sex Switch on your 18th birthday.

[(Anonymous)]

I hooked up with several guys who were in their 20s and even their 30s when I was 15-16. They were all a lot more respectful of my boundaries and my wishes than any 16-year-old I hooked up with. My personal experience has been that hooking up with older men was so, so much better for me than exploring my sexuality with other teenagers.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm glad you didn't have a terrible experience. There are a lot of disrespectful guys who I think like young girls at least partly because they think they're easier to manipulate or get away with treating badly, though (at least I ran into some of these, and often had trouble getting rid of them).

(also, how many of the creepy older guys are going to read this and decide it's their duty to "help" a bunch of teenagers explore their sexuality?)

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT

But stuff like "emotional manipulation" are a thing in RELATIONSHIPS, not in having a fling with someone. I don't get how ever time we talk about "underage" sex people start to act like people have to connect on a personal level for that. Sometimes it's just putting one sexual organ in (the general vicinity) of another person's sexual organ because it feels good.

[(Anonymous)]

Cool story bro, but that doesn't change the fact that a 30 who has the desire to hook up with a 15 year is actually a fucking peadophile. Also if by "hooked up" you mean had sex- thats statutory rape.

[(Anonymous)]

Abloobloobloo

See this is exactly the kind of tired-ass "throwing 'pedo' everywhere" BS I just roll my eyes at now.