[ SECRET POST #3132 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3132 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

You sort of hit the target later on in your comment, but to clarify...

"... because people don't like when I'm too opinionated."


It's not the having of opinions that people dislike or take issue with. It's in how the opinions are expressed, and to whom, and in what context. Nobody will care if you have truckloads of opinions on _____ fandom, but if you insist on imposing them on people who'd rather not engage in discussion with you, then yeah, they're not going to like it. Lots of people enjoy critical discussion of their fandom. But if all your discussion is being interpreted as criticism when that isn't what you intend, you probably have some issues with tone and knowing when to back off.

[(Anonymous)]

Nobody will care if you have truckloads of opinions on _____ fandom, but if you insist on imposing them on people who'd rather not engage in discussion with you, then yeah, they're not going to like it.

The problem with the tumblr format is that there isn't really a line separating one from the other. If you see someone's post in which they're stating their opinion about the text, and you disagree with their opinion and reply by posting your own (civilly worded) disagreement, many people will feel that you are imposing your opinions rudely, or even bullying.

There's no clear line between "my own space," "public space," and "your own space," in tumblr fandom, which leads to a lot of nastiness and wank.

[(Anonymous)]

The rather simple and obvious solution is to do your own write up in a separate post, though.

[(Anonymous)]

Simple and obvious, yes, but it's not necessarily a very good solution. Mainly because it all but eliminates the potential for dialogue, and dialogue is an invaluable part of intellectual pursuit.

And if you quote from a person's post without linking to their original post, that's just feels underhanded. Academically sound, but underhanded nonetheless.

[(Anonymous)]

I agree. It feels like you're talking about someone behind their back in a rather passive-aggressive way to make your post an obvious reply to another, yet not link it or refer to it directly.

Yet replying directly under the post itself is seen as bad tumblr etiquette and close to bullying, which I will never understand.

There's really no way to have a proper dialogue on tumblr, like we're having right now on this thread, for instance. It's a real difficulty when so much of fandom has moved to tumblr, yet the culture and format there are so unfriendly towards any kind of debate.

[(Anonymous)]

I agree with every word of this.