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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-19 06:49 pm

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world_eater: (Default)

Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

[personal profile] world_eater 2015-08-19 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
...and months later you find out that they are still active, only they didn't tell you, or maybe never were inactive, maybe they only deleted all the chars you knew about.


Would you call them out? Would you assume they must have had a good reason not telling, so you should leave them alone? Would you inquire to the other people you know are in contact with them? Would you keep it to yourself, or talk about it with others who knew them?
Edited 2015-08-19 23:46 (UTC)

Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

(Anonymous) 2015-08-19 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe they did quit for a month then went back and felt it was weird or everyone else had passed them?

Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-08-19 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't "call them out" but I might remind them that they had said they were going to quit privately, in a non-confrontational manner. Something along the lines of, "Oh, you're still playing that? I thought you said you were quitting."

I mean... ultimately it's their decision but I might want an explanation for why they'd tell me one thing and then do another.

Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

(Anonymous) 2015-08-19 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd do nothing. Their life, not mine. Calling out, come on, say what you mean. Say you feel jilted because you got dumped. There is nothing call worthy there. You acting like a prissy jealous high school jock with a wounded ego, now that is call worthy. No one owes you a conversation or a game, get over it.
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Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

[personal profile] world_eater 2015-08-19 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Now you're a touchy one.

Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-08-20 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
That's some fine projecting there, anon.
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Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

[personal profile] dancing_clown 2015-08-19 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
If you think they just didn't want to play with you anymore, and you don't want to make things awkward, keep it to yourself. If you're genuinely curious and not worried about potential awkwardness, don't go sleuthing with other people or be all "YOU LIED! I'm calling you out!!", just go to that person and say "Hey! I noticed you're back on WoW! Quitting didn't take, huh?" and go from there.
Edited 2015-08-19 23:52 (UTC)

Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

(Anonymous) 2015-08-19 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Were you not close enough forinds to have shared battletags?

(ALso - I've Quit WoW Forever a half dozen times over the past 8 years. Each hiatus lasted 2 - 12 months. I was dead serious about going back eacb time, but time away made me forget most of the bad -- or I got curious about the Shiny New Things. It happens to a lot of people.)
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Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

[personal profile] world_eater 2015-08-19 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
He said that he only used btag for organising events (we're on an RP realm).

Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

(Anonymous) 2015-08-20 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
wellll... okay. Though if you've shared your btags then no matter what new toon they roll on what server, you'll know they're on-line.
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Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

[personal profile] world_eater 2015-08-20 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
I know, but I don't have his btag since he didn't want to give it to me (for the reason I mentioned above). Sorry if that wasn't clear.
Edited 2015-08-20 00:38 (UTC)
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Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-08-20 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Well, it would depend on why they told you that? I rarely lie, but people who harass or try to guilt me about stuff are more prone to be lied to.

In sort: if someone pressured them to quit and they didn't really want to, I'm not surprised they're lying.
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Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

[personal profile] world_eater 2015-08-20 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
Nah, I'm playing myself, I didn't want them to leave.
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Re: Say WoW friend tells you they'll quit the game

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-08-20 04:25 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe if it was a few days I might be 'what gives?' But a few months? Eh. Maybe they just got back into it and it didn't occur to them to track everyone down, maybe they wanted to start over fresh, maybe they never left and were not happy in their current gaming circle.

I might give a hey or sup then leave them to their gaming. I wouldn't bother gossiping about it with others. I definitely wouldn't "call out" because they're playing a game and didn't tell me they were o-o
Edited 2015-08-20 04:26 (UTC)