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Re: Unpopular Opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-08-23 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/imp/jcs/2008/00000015/00000001/art00001
http://www.medical-hypotheses.com/article/S0306-9877(07)00181-8/abstract?cc=y=
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/7477289
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18980961
http://press.endocrine.org/doi/full/10.1210/jcem.85.5.6564
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22891037
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22364652
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19341803
Re: Unpopular Opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-08-23 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)Women aren't INHERENTLY better caretakers or more emotional -- that's social conditioning.
Similarly, men aren't inherently more stoic or logical.
Gender constructs have often emphasized this but there's no biological basis.
Re: Unpopular Opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-08-23 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Unpopular Opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-08-23 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)That men ARE inherently more logical? That women ARE inherently more nurturing and emotional?
And that's why we have gender roles -- because of course the more "naturally nurturing" women should be caretakers?
Because that's the only conclusion I can come to from what you're saying, correct me if I'm wrong.
Re: Unpopular Opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 12:01 am (UTC)(link)Re: Unpopular Opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 01:32 am (UTC)(link)It's the difference between identity and performance. The performance part, the part where men are supposed to be more logical and women are supposed to be more nurturing and emotional, is constructed. The identity part, the part where you "feel" like a man or a woman and you "feel" like you're in the right or wrong body, is not.
The best way I have seen it explained is by drawing an analogy to phantom limbs. So, if someone loses their leg, they still feel like it's there. The super simplified reason for this is that their brain is telling them they should have a limb there. Their "body map" says "this isn't empty space, it's your arm/leg!" Same thing with gender identity. Your "body map" says "you should have a vagina" or "you should have a penis," and if you happen to have the opposite, it's "this isn't a vagina, it's a penis!" Which fucks with you.
Re: Unpopular Opinions
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(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 06:04 am (UTC)(link)Re: Unpopular Opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-08-23 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)Gender is a social construct, sex is not, it's biological. For example, a transman needs to see a gynecologist for their overall health while they still possess the organs of a particular sex, though that sex doesn't match their gender identity.
Re: Unpopular Opinions
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(Anonymous) 2015-08-23 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Unpopular Opinions
(Anonymous) 2015-08-23 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)I could see a case being made in terms of dysphoria or dysmorphia. "A person who desperately hates their physical features and is convinced they should look physically different" isn't anything new as far as psychology goes.
This isn't to say that the idea of being trans racial should be fully accepted as an identity, but I think a person who is, or genuinely believes they are, dysphoric or dysmorphic about their body in racial terms, could easily exist. What factors lead to it is up for debate, like you said.