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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-24 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3155 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3155 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I mean, clearly you're horrible. Oh, wait, no you're not. These things happen, and it took 2 to make it happen. Don't be so hard on yourself or your feelings. But I'd definitely encourage you to continue not entertaining a relationship with him. Not so much because it makes you the other woman, but because if he'll cheat on her, he'll cheat on you.

Just try to think about like having some good sex in a one-time situation a d move on. As friends if you can or cut loose if you can't.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't feel the need to emphasize this, because AYRT clearly understands it, but it is a morally wrong thing to do, and you have to consider it as such.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
The thing about morals, is everyone can have a different set.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
That is a fucking stupid thing to say.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Ok.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow. You just reached the apogee of sophisticated rhetoric right there.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean, there's no point in arguing with you, so the next best thing is accepting you have a different opinion and moving on with life. But sin e you brought it up, let's not act like "that's a fucking stupid thing to say" is the height of sophistication.

But please, throw more big words at me if it'll make you happy.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure, but it kind of behooves you to actually make some kind of constructive case about why a particular moral stance is or is not justified. You can't just leave it at "morals vary" and shrug, not if you want to have any kind of moral code at large. Like, you could make the same argument against literally any moral statement, couldn't you?

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Except, "morals vary" is the only truth that matters here. Express a moral that I find repulsive enough to waste time fighting about and I'll do it.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Seriously, what are you talking about

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Which part is confusing? The fact that we all have our own set of morals or the idea that it's possible to not feel inclined to be in internet fights over them?

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
the fact that you never said the second thing before, i guess

(Anonymous) 2015-08-25 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
The second part was really only a reply to the idea that I should be building a case to defend my position. When, no, I really don't have to.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-25 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
well, like

i think you do have to build a case and defend the position if you actually want to advance it as a moral position. like, if there's going to be a conversation.

if you just don't feel like talking about it right now, that's a different matter

(Anonymous) 2015-08-25 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
Who said I was advancing anything as a moral position? People are making way more oh of this comment than I was.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-25 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
I think people are more replying to the "People can have different moral positions" part of it

If you had just said "Sure, whatever, but I don't want to talk about it right now" or "I don't think it's relevant" or "Whether or not it's wrong, it's not really necessary for OP to think about it that way right now" that'd be one thing but like. "Everyone can have a different set of morals" is a really bad reply when someone says something is immoral.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-25 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
But its a true reply.

(Anonymous) 2015-08-25 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
it can be both true, and really bad and dumb

(Anonymous) 2015-08-24 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
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