[ SECRET POST #3175 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3175 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm a straight cis woman, and I really resent the fact that my body is designed exclusively to be penetrated during sex. I don't wish I were a man or wish to have a penis, I just hate being penetrated, on a conceptual level. I hate that sexual intercourse has to involve allowing another person to invade my body. The fact that handjobs, cunnilingus, etc. are non-penetrative options doesn't mitigate the resentment that I'm expected to be enthusiastic about PIV sex.

And I know this is fucked up, and I am in therapy, thanks. Just wanted to confess.

Re: Confession thread

[kitelovesyou]

Reframe penetration as enclosure? A man is allowing you to envelop the most sensitive part of his body in you, that's vulnerability, or could be, with the right partner. (There's a reason men culturally have the "vagina dentata" fear.)

But if you're not into PIV, or PIA, then don't. Would you want to strap it on and try anal or oral play with a partner? If not, there's so many other ways to explore the body and get off, just ask lesbians.

Re: Confession thread

[chardmonster]

A man is allowing you to envelop the most sensitive part of his body in you, that's vulnerability, or could be, with the right partner.

I'd say this is a good strategy... except OP's chances of finding a straight dude who actually thinks this way are near nil.

Re: Confession thread

[kitelovesyou]

Yeeaaahhh. Maybe a bi guy would be a bit more open minded, idk. Or someone a bit subby, but still, that's not necessarily what OP is after.

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

Is this something you've felt for a long time, or a recent revelation? JW, because there was a point in my life where I felt the same, and I don't remember when/why I changed my mind, now that I think about it...

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

If you're in therapy there's probably not much we can say that's any more enlightening, but just to throw out there anyway in the spirit of discussion, PIV sex isn't the only kind of sex and it's okay if you don't like it. Not everybody does, plenty of straight women have more fun receiving oral sex or even non-penetrative rubbing. Though it does seem pretty bad if you can only think of it as "being invaded". Good luck with therapy. :)

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

i've felt this way before