[ SECRET POST #3176 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3176 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Journey]


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03.
[Absolutely Fabulous]


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04.
(Sam Smith, Lana Del Rey, Shirley Bassey, Ellie Goulding)


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05.
[Tim Drake, DC Comics]


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06.
[Wakako-zake]


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07.
[FIFA, World Soccer Championship]


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08.
[Fear The Walking Dead]


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09.
[Calvin Dyson - Bond Reviewer, The Anime Man, BobSamurai's Anime Reviews, Retroblasting, Oliver Harper's Retrospective and Reviews]


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10.
[Higher Ground]


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11.
[Beelzebub]


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12.
[Steven Universe]


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13.
[Robert Stack, Unsolved Mysteries]








Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 056 secrets from Secret Submission Post #454.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

Sometimes I have difficulty hanging out with people who are really pretty. Not all the time, but if I'm having a low self esteem day then I come up with stupid excuses to avoid them.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

I do that with people who are very nicely dressed. For example if I'm wearing sweats with a messy hairdo, I won't even make eye contact with someone dressed nicely with makeup and perfect hair.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

my anxiety

if i get even the slightest impression that someone doesn't like me i'll back away so far that they probably think i don't like them

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

This.

Like, I have people I've been friends with for literally over a decade. Really close friends. And there's still a recurrent background fear that I'm annoying them and getting on their nerves.

When it's people I don't know, it's definitely to that level.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

People who insult and belittle those who disagree with them on a regular basis and are narrow minded. I unfollowed an old fandom friend a while back but lately when I looked at their blog I've been realizing how narrow minded they are when people disagree or have different political leanings, usually calling them stupid, immature or hypocrites.

Makes me wonder how I didn't pick up on this when we used to talk.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

Has this been on your mind a lot recently

AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

A bit yeah. I just wonder what made me see past the signs when I was young.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

I hate when people make up stupid nicknames for people based on politics, like the ever-charming "Libtard." I guess there's a conservative equivalent too, but I haven't seen it.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

Overly hyper. I have a lot of friends like this, and I can only take so much.

Inviting me over to their house and just using their phone or laptop the whole time... okay, so I'll just sit here and look at the wall, but if you want me for anything, I'm here! Seems rude.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[philstar22]

Yes. Overly hyper or overly happy. I can't handle super cheery people who are excited and chipper all the time. Gives me a headache.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

Finding out they like a show/movie/book that's famous in overall fandom for being really terrible. Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey, and Big Bang Theory have all been some examples.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

Is this online or IRL? Because I find a lot more people IRL love those things than I think the internet wants to admit.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

Over-sensitivity.

Not "over-sensitive" like getting mad at racist things, I mean real over-sensitivity like taking everything personally and assuming it's an attack on them when it's not.

"I don't like that piece."
"OMG r u saying my taste sux. R u disparaging my artistic eye. HDU."
"This has literally nothing to do with you, please go away."

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[caerbannog]

+2

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

+3

Although I don't think this is particularly petty. I don't have the time or energy anymore for people who want to pretend they're the victim of every interaction or event.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

One-upmanship. There is this one guy I know who cannot hear you mention a show or a book you like without jumping in to tell you, at length, how greatly superior this other thing that he likes is.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

Their attitudes about money, specifically if they have a lot of it and tend to show it off. Or just talk about money constantly.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

I am equally annoyed by people who talk all the time about how much money they have and people who talk all the time about how much money they don't have.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[cloud_riven]

If I don't like the sound of your laughter, especially if you're prone to laughing a lot. I'll avoid talking to you, but if I do I try to keep it as serious and uncomfortable as possible because I don't want to set your guffawing off. I'm sorry, Killer of Ears. You're cool, but I hate you anyways :(

Also, I avoid internet fandomy people irl. Like, the wear-it-on-their sleeve kind. Same goes for anyone who openly talks about how they are from the 4chans/tumblrs/youtubes/etc. (exception of redditors though. less weirdoes ime)

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

+1 on the wear it on your sleeve fandom type. I've had too many bad encounters that it's just not worth the couple who aren't unbearable or severely maladjusted.

I usually don't mind as much people who have/wear stealth fandom things in public, like something you'd only get if you were into the fandom yourself, but even then you have to be careful.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

When people are overtly religious. If I'm going through a bad time and someone says, "I'll pray for you!" I thank them politely and try to tell myself that it's the thought that counts. But inside, I'm thinking... wow, thanks for doing something that requires almost no effort and yields no results except that YOU feel better.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

hell yes this.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[caerbannog]

Overly up in my personal space

Overly fandom invested? I...don't actually like talking about fandom 24/7.

Overly dramatic/upset over small things. Like say the train is late. Sure be annoyed for 5 mins, post on Facebook or whatever. But if you're going to go on a 30 minute rant about public transport/users I'm... Gonna distance myself now, bye.

How you talk to call centre ppl. Being upset is fine, insulting them/redirecting your upset onto them is not.

Casual sexism. Well, repeated casual sexism. We all slip up.

Re: Petty things that you make avoid someone

[(Anonymous)]

If they're always, always griping about something.