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case) wrote in
fandomsecrets2015-10-18 12:11 pm
F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!)
Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.
Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required.
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.
That's about it, though!
I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff. If you want me to link your thread up here, drop a link in the first comment!
General:
Halloween costumes
Fandom-general:
Porn comics
F/F recs
Guilty pleasures
Fandom-specific:
Girl Meets World

Re: Things people do that you can't STAND
(Anonymous) 2015-10-18 06:52 pm (UTC)(link)Even worse when they react to criticism with "BUT MUH FREE SPEECH/RIGHT TO AN OPINION" bawwing. Shut the fuck up and quit playing innocent, you know very well that you're being an asshole.
It's not about silencing you, it's about being mature enough to let other people have their fun even if you aren't into it. They don't NEED to know that you "don't do that" or don't like it. If it doesn't apply to you then you can just skip it. You aren't so fucking important that your judgement just NEEDS to be expressed rather than letting some people have a good time.
Re: Things people do that you can't STAND
(Anonymous) 2015-10-18 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)DA
(Anonymous) 2015-10-18 07:01 pm (UTC)(link)I remember when the one girl was being stalked and the stalker kept going on at every opportunity about how "I find her annoying and want her to leave" and when someone told them to quit being asshole their response was "OMG you ASSHOLE how dare you silence my opinion!1!" (after their opinion had been stated for like the tenth fucking time no less)
Talk about self awareness being at an all time low.
Re: Things people do that you can't STAND
(Anonymous) 2015-10-18 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)And I agree with your overall post. If they want to complain about or trash that thing, then they can start their own discussion thread. Sometimes some fans just want a happy, wank-free space, and there's nothing wrong with that, and they deserve to have that.
I also hate the idea that if you try and focus on positive aspects of something you're a "Pollyanna" or a "lemming" or whatever. I can find plenty to critique about the shows I love, too, episodes and seasons I'm not as big on and stuff like that. I'm not naïve enough to claim everything is totally perfect. But for the most part, if I'm talking about something I'm a fan of, I like to focus on and talk about the good sides of it, the things that made me love it in the first place.
(And of course, on the flip side, I hate that people assume that any criticism means you're not a "true fan" and you automatically must hate the show or something. It's like people can't understand the concept of balanced opinions and thoughts, everything's got to be one extreme or another.)