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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-18 12:11 pm

F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!)

F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required.
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff. If you want me to link your thread up here, drop a link in the first comment!



General:
Halloween costumes

Fandom-general:
Porn comics
F/F recs
Guilty pleasures

Fandom-specific:
Girl Meets World

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
If the main point of still living at home is having someone to come home to a dog will always be happy to see you. And moving out doesn't mean cutting out all human companionship. You can still have that, you know.

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
I have a dog, so I know that. It's still not the same. If it is the same to you then that's wonderful but it isn't for me. I'm out of the house from 8am to 7pm every weekday at work and would hate to leave pets cooped up alone for that long too.

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
SA

I think dogs are wonderful and would love to have dogs around as well, don't get me wrong. But dogs can't talk to you like a human can. You can't say that they must be the same to me.

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not saying a dog is the same thing as a human, but there are a thing called phone or Skype, or a million other ways to have human contact. I mean at one point your parents will die and what do you do then? Isn't it better to feel how it is to live alone before you are forced to?

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
I understand that you are okay with less in person human interaction than I am, but if I can have it what's wrong with keeping it? Once my parents die I will have to live alone but why are you so determined that I should do it beforehand? You're so vested in insisting there are replacements for it when a replacement isn't necessary.

I do live alone a lot, for the record. My parents travel often for weeks at a time on vacations and business. We use things called phones and internet and a million other ways to have contact during those times, since we are not idiots that don't know these exist. I am happier when they are home with me.

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
SA

have to live alone or find a roommate, though finding one that would be okay with living together indefinitely would be unlikely. My plan in that eventuality would be to move into a larger apartment and sublet so that people are around, but that necessitates the hassle of finding and vetting tenants who would move in and out over time.*

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Got your panties in a bunch? I'm not saying move out this instance, in fact I haven't explicitly said move out at all. I'm just giving one viewpoint on it and what you said is the original post was that you wanted someone to come home to and I said a pet is one way to have that. There is also a thing called visiting fyi or going out together.

You were the one opening up a discussion, not I.

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
If I opened up the discussion, you were the one that started being condescending. Please do not say you sincerely thought I didn't know what that thing called a phone is, or that I needed someone else to suggest that calling people was an option. Really?

I have a hard time believing this is a real attempt at discussion on your part at all, so I'm going to stop replying. Thanks.

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
I by no means meant to be condescending, but you acted as if moving out meant no human contact ever again, so I merely offered suggestions for that.

If you are insulted, I'm sorry that you have such thin skin.

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
NA You're a condescending jerk, anon, and your entire argument here has been weirdly irrational. I suspect you may have some personal issues of your own with this, as you seem to resent OP or have some kind of weird prejudicial opinions about OP's living arrangement.

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad that you're happy, anon. No judgment at all!

Re: Living with parents

(Anonymous) 2015-10-19 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Not everyone is that attached to their pets, anon. Which is alright.