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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-18 12:11 pm

F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!)

F!S Anon Meme (the ??th!)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required.
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff. If you want me to link your thread up here, drop a link in the first comment!



General:
Halloween costumes

Fandom-general:
Porn comics
F/F recs
Guilty pleasures

Fandom-specific:
Girl Meets World

Re: Do you enjoy failure?

(Anonymous) 2015-10-20 04:45 am (UTC)(link)
Define success/failure. And am I having fun doing it?

The more fragile a state of mind I'm in, the less positive I am about improvement, the less able I am to learn, the less fun I'm having, and the less happy I am to fuck up at something. For example, when I went through a vicious bout of depression and low self esteem, getting the notes wrong when practising the violin was unbearable, and got me crying about what a failure I was, so I gave it up.