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It's so dark out! It feels like 9:30, but it's only 6:30.

I hate that, too!

I have had back pain for about a month. Nothing debilitating, but it's annoying. I pretty much *never* ad trouble with my back before, and have no idea why this is.

I have so much left to write on a paper I'm working on and the first draft is due tomorrow :c

My back has been killing me from work. Bah! It got better for a while.

Also, it is too cold to go running in the morning so now I am worried I am going to start picking up weight. I gotta figure out a good cardio plan to do inside.

Work + back pain = D:

I know that feeling. :(

I stay inside all the time. I really really need to go walking, but dammit, I get my fill of running around, hauling heavy shit in the cold at work every night, so....

I hurt my arm drawing. I've hit a new low.

I feel like Walmart is personally stalking me and being sure to systematically remove anything that I like/use a lot from their stores. First a few foods I liked. Then footwear (both socks AND shoes) in my size. Now art supplies for my (very common) chosen art.

Ugh, it's SAD time. I hate this time of year and basically live for the holidays because then I have off from work and can see the sun again.

I know! It was pitch black at 6; I find it a bit unsettling.

And my toe is sore and it hurts when I put much pressure on it. Seems like I have a blister. (Wondering if it's from my eczema...never had eczema on my feet before, but I guess there's a first time for everything.)

I have to do an online meeting with some UI engineers and I don't want to! It's such a simple fix, ID DO IT IF YOU GAVE ME THE DATABASE ACCESS.

It's driving me up the wall. We don't need an hour long screenshare meeting. I need YOU to put the CORRECT PARAMETER IN. Then I can take the reigns back and make it a toggleable option.

That is it!!!!! Why is this such a fucking big issue?!?!? arthhhffhoxotxogxotxptxoxor

I can't drive, the store is too far away to walk. On sunday I ask both my roommates to tell me next time they go to the grocery store so I can come, I'm running low on food and they go weekly or more usually, I only come along every two weeks or so (cause they usually go when I'm in class). Today one goes without me. Okay, it was for something small. Ask again, can you take me to the store soon. I get snapped at for not asking sooner. I DID ASK SOONER I ASKED SUNDAY. I'm frustrated.

Ugh. Hard situation. :/ Do you have a friend who you can go with?

It's so windy it's freaking me out, it's freaking my cat out, and it won't get warm in here.

I hate being sick. My temperature is 102. I have no energy to do anything, but I'm also really, really bored. And my throat is so sore I can barely swallow. I managed to get down some oatmeal earlier, but that's all I've eaten today.

Ugh, I can't remember if I took my meds tonight.

my tummy hasn't been right since that horrible wine I had Sunday night. I really don't want to get sick, or have it turn into something that needs a hospital intervention. So many folks at work have gone to the hospital for sudden afflictions lately, and some haven't been better for it. I'm trying really hard not to eat anything too spicy, acidic, or rich, and I'm reaching for more veggies and fruits, though a lot of produce lately is of poor quality. I just want to feel better or at least not have to worry that my own body will turn on me over a shitty glass of wine.

BRAT diet is good for occasions like this:

http://familydoctor.org/familydoctor/en/prevention-wellness/food-nutrition/weight-loss/brat-diet-recovering-from-an-upset-stomach.html

And when you're feeling better, plenty of yogurt to restock your stomach with good bacteria.

Well, I tried something like this all week. Oddly, the bananas and yogurt didn't help yesterday. Even more oddly, eating Taco Bell didn't leave me nauseated. I think I just need to pace myself and see what happens.

It was recently my birthday, and my longterm boyfriend ditched me to 'catch up' with a female friend. He had the entire day to himself, and we had plans to spend the night together, but his female friend wanted to 'hang out' last minute and he canceled to be with her. I told him this sort of upset me, and he told me I was being 'jealous and clingy' and it doesn't matter that it was my birthday. It's not a situation where he can never speak to this woman, or she lives out of town/state. He could have hung out with her any other time, but she wanted it then, and he feels that meant he 'had' to.

I've never had a problem with him being alone with his friends, so his reaction really confuses me. Maybe I am wrong for being upset?

No, you're not wrong for being upset. It's one thing if he wants to hang out with his friend. It's another if he bails on you last minute to do so. And entirely another if he dismisses your reaction as jealousy. It's just damn rude. And hell, it didn't occur to him to inform the girl that you guys had plans, especially because it was your birthday?

I hate to say it, but he might have something to hide if he's making you out to be the bad guy here. Yes, friends are important, but if he's letting her dictate how he spends his time, then he's either an idiot who can't think for himself, or he's not being honest about the nature of their friendship. I mean... accusing you, his longtime girlfriend, of being jealous and clingy because you were upset (rightfully) that he bailed on your birthday, is a rather defensive reaction. It's entirely possible they feel as close as siblings and/or he's protective of her, but that doesn't give him the right to suddenly drop you just because she's suddenly wanting some buddy time.

You're not wrong! It doesn't matter whether it was your birthday or not: a "friend" who bails on your existing plans at the last minute to spend time with someone else is disgustingly rude and inconsiderate. Unless there's some actual emergency, there's no excuse for that; he could always have made a date with her some time when he didn't have a commitment with you. Calling you "jealous and clingy" is his way of trying to excuse himself for his asshole behavior and put the guilt on you. What a dick!

No, this seems unusually douchey. Is he usually a thoughtful, considerate person? My guess is no. Before you rush to defend him, think hard about his behavior in the past and I will bet you good money this isn't the first time he's pulled something like this. It won't be the last, either.

What the fuck? That is ground for breaking up in my book. Doesn't matter that the friend he ditched you for was female, I'd have been equally pissed if my guy had blown me off on my birthday to hang with his bros when we had made prior plans. I would never do something like that to even a friend, let alone my longterm partner.

I need to write my NaNo story because I'll get behind if I miss one more day, but I'm cold and sleepy and I just want my bed.

I'm in constant pain, I'm broke, I'm depressed and I'm stuck at home. Nothing out of the ordinary there, but it's all starting to wear on me just a tiny bit.

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