[ SECRET POST #3245 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3245 ⌋

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Comments

[ketita]

IRL though "healthy relationship" doesn't mean "nothing ever happens". For most people, navigating everyday life with someone you actually like and enjoy being around is *enough*. There are misunderstandings anyway, stupid shit happens anyway. You find that an unhealthy relationship often is a massive drain on your emotional energy.
It's like how nobody ever wants to actually be the doctor's "interesting case". Trust me, you'd rather be the boring one they send home with instructions to stay in bed for a week and take some ibuprofen.

[(Anonymous)]

> It's like how nobody ever wants to actually be the doctor's "interesting case". Trust me, you'd rather be the boring one they send home with instructions to stay in bed for a week and take some ibuprofen.


...that statement just hit home for me. Considering lately I've felt like a medical freakshow.

[solticisekf]

+1
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Exactly. It's exhausting for everyone involved.

I had a friend who was in an abusive relationship. She was on cloud 9 one week and full of self-hatred and anger the next. It happened over and over again for the same reasons.

Just being the occassional confidante was emotionally draining. The emotional car crash she was on certainly did her no favors.