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Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

This is a thread for relationship confessions.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

We're attracted to each other and enjoy each other and love each other, but neither of us is thrilled with the actual sex. The meds I'm on mean I haven't been able to orgasm since before we got together. He's never lasted very long, and the fact that I can never get above a certain level of enjoyment reduces his own drive. He feels inadequate even though it isn't his fault. We still have fun together, but not as often as I would like.

We'll probably be going to sex therapy once we can afford it.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe learn to enjoy long foreplay sessions and other forms of sex besides p in v sex? If he doesn't last long, well, that's what mouths/tongues/fingers/battery operated toys are for.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

My husband and I have done that thing where we each have a celebrity crush "freebie" so to speak if we were ever to meet them in person. You know, that one person that we'd have a free pass to cheat with, just this once, if we ever happened to cross paths - and that was NEVER going to happen.

Except... it's going to. In just a few short weeks.

Is it terrible that I'm trying to think of ways to make it happen - even though I KNOW this guy wouldn't look at me twice?

Er... also the celeb dude is married, too.

I suck as a human being.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

Nothing is wrong with having fantasies. I guarantee you that your husband has them, too.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

It makes me a little sad that cheating is probably the one thing he could never forgive me for, while I can definitely imagine situations where I could forgive him. We're happy and secure and have never cheated or had issues with a partner cheating, so it's pretty irrelevant. But it feels weird to have this imbalance.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

When I have dreams about sex, they never feature my SO. They usually involve me not being totally comfortable with the idea of having sex with whoever else, but my SO never shows up.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

My boyfriend thinks I'm going to go downstairs and pour him a drink but I'm not going to.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

You monster.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I don't like his family as much as he thinks I do.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

My partner isn't judgy, but because he never just has a beer or a glass of wine on a weeknight I feel weird when I do. I feel the irrational need to hide it from him. I'm afraid of turning into a functional alcoholic like my father, but I know concealing my drinking from the person I live with is not exactly a good step away from that.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

He hardly ever cums for sex and he says it does not bother him but dammit it bothers *me*. Also we have less sex than I'd want.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I like playing video games more than I like my girlfriend.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

My wifes Irish heritage disgusts me.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

The only reason I'm still with my girl friend is that her brother is a literal psychopath that has two attempted murders under his belt and zero convictions. He fucking terrifies me.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I've never been in a romantic or sexual relationship of any sort and have no desire to be in one. I feel like there's something wrong with me.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I care, a lot, about his KP and his dry skin. I don't love him less or find him any less attractive, but damn do I want to give the guy a bath in Amlactin.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I'm worried that it's not going to work out, but I'm too afraid of confrontation.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I'm 28 and I've never been in a relationship. I'm starting to think that I probably wouldn't even be able to be in relationship because I'm becoming so set in my ways (and hey, 28 is probably too young for that!) that I probably couldn't manage to adjust to another person in that way.
And I would like to be in a relationship. I just keep thinking of more reasons why I'd be awful in one.

For what it's worth, it isn't exactly comforting that my aunt who is a lifelong single herself is starting to say things that sound like she thinks that that will be my life too. Also, cats keep turning up at my door and "adopting me". XD

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I got in contact with an abusive ex of mine. I'm torn between hoping they don't reply so I can't fall back down into that destructive spiral, and hoping they DO reply because I'm so lonely and I just want to be able to talk to someone who knows me.

I have no friends, no family, nothing, and I've reached the point where I've concluded that I just am incapable of maintaining any kind of social interaction with another person for longer than about five minutes without scaring them away.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

My SO only thinks of herself doing what ever she wants and does nothing beyond that. I end up doing all the work in the relationship other than her going to actual work. She is either working or playing video games. And we never have sex anymore. She would rather masturbate than make love to me. It sucks. I do everything and get nothing in return.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I don't want a boyfriend. What I want is someone who wants to sleep over all the time so I can stick my cold feet on his legs. He also needs to smell good and not complain when I want to stay up late reading.

Basically I want someone to be nice to me even though I am bad at compromise and have icy devil feet.

I could probably find someone who would let me treat them like a body pillow, but I would feel bad about it.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

WARNING: INCOMING CARNIVAL OF PATHETIC

When I was younger, I broke myself by wanting so very desperately to be with an internet boyfriend. It happened around the holidays, and not being with him just about killed me. Ours was a relationship only a few months old, but I was the type of person who just couldn't (or didn't know how to) be honest about my true feelings and expectations. Maybe I thought in the grand scheme of things, my wants were petty and I didn't need to be bothering him with them.

Pretty sure I was depressed as hell for the next few months, maybe for the next couple of years, though to a lesser extent. I compensated by overreacting to every little thing (if something was a good thing, I acted too happy, if it was sad, I'd be dramatic about how sad it was, etc) and pretending everything was fine.

It wasn't long into the "relationship" before he offered to come meet me but I declined... it wasn't his fault that I felt like such a fool, but I just couldn't bring myself to meet him face-to-face. I kicked myself in the ass by being way too obsessed about a boy and then having it all come to a full stop, I kicked myself in the ass again by wanting more but being too much of an idiot or a coward (or both) to say anything about it.

There were other things too... the fear of subjecting him to my batshit insane family, the fear that I honestly felt nothing for him after all. When I let him go, I said some of the stupidest shit to him. I made it sound like it was the worst thing in the world and that I was the one hurting (though it was true I was hurting), and I made it sound like he was the one with issues when in reality, I was the one with issues. I don't regret the breakup but I do regret being an ignorant dipshit who hurt him. I still talk to him to this day and we get along fine, but while part of me will always wonder what might have been had I not had so much issues, I just don't feel the way I used to.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

I've never had a relationship and I'm over 37 years old. No one cares that I avoid dates with unattractive men. No one cares about me at all. No one I want ever asks me out.

Re: Relationship confessions

[(Anonymous)]

Actualish dialogue:

"I guess I don't understand the appeal of 24/7 D/s relationships."

"Ye'd best start believin' in 24/7 relationships... yer in one!"

"Huh. Yeah, you're right. It just doesn't look like I assumed it would."