[ SECRET POST #3290 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3290 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

I'm terrified of women.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

How come?

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

I feel like I'm socially wrong. Like there's a part of me that's I can't change, but women can - I don't know - smell the hetrosexuality on me and they'll know I lust after them and they'll think I'm a creep or dangerous or maybe just a relativly harmless little chauvinist. I feel like there's something about me that I shouldn't be and isn't allowed, and I'm terrified, just fucking "please let me find the courage to kill myself so I don't accidentally interact with a women who can know me for what I am and ruin even the minor social interactions I allow myself" terrified that the women around me will see me for what I am.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[blitzwing]

You're way overthinking it man. Most women aren't going to be bothered or offended if they think you're attracted to them.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

da

I honestly don't care if a person finds me fuckable as long as they treat me as a person and not an object

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[insanenoodlyguy]

An easier way might be to find a woman that wants you to lust after her. Those exist. Though it sounds like isn't the only thing you feel incredibly anxious about so you might also want to consider therapy for your probable social anxiety.

Turning yourself into a different sexuality isn't a thing that actually works so your going to have to accept the biological urges you have that have kept the human race going are probably there at least for a few more decades. Also that they aren't inherently evil.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

Honestly, all that makes it sound like there is somthing wrong with you. When did you start being afraid of women? or was it always there and this whole 'Wah feminazis are mean to me" thing is just a shield you inborn hatred?

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

More WAAAAH POOR MEN bullshit.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

You're the kind of person Arthur Chu writes messed up articles about. Get some treatment.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[elialshadowpine]

Okay, because many of the responses have been messed up or trolls... therapy. Seriously. These are issues that you need to be talking with someone about, and getting help for.

There's really no good answer to what is "allowed" because it depends on the individual. If you read above, a woman describes a situation in which she felt a man was respectful and she appreciated his remarks, but other women responded saying they would have been creeped out by it.

So, it sorta comes down to being able to pick up on social cues and where any sort of communication would be welcome. It depends some on the area you're from, too; if people don't tend to small talk, smile at each other, say hi, or anything of the like, and you do, it's going to come off weird or creepy. If you're in an area where that's relatively normal, probably not so much so long as you treat the woman in question like you would any other person.

When it comes down to dating, if you're going through an online service, it's easier because you can get to know the person a bit better online first; there's more of a distance before (or if) you meet.

But, going back, therapy. Because it also sounds like you may need some help with picking up on social cues in general if you are this afraid and anxious. Good luck.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

I'm afraid of Americans.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[insanenoodlyguy]

Just keep singing david

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPVrFIP0CMs

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

Yes. That was the joke.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[comma_chameleon]

I'm afraid of the world.


>.>;;

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

You should be. We outnumber you.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

Lol. Okay....

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

You know, some people are being really shitty here, but don't see OP saying he's a guy. It might be a woman feeling like this, and you all are being shitty to her.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[blitzwing]

They stated they were heterosexual.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

And when it's upsetting a woman is when we need to start caring about being shitty, right? You ever wonder where people get the idea that feminism is killing empathy for men?

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

feminism is killing empathy for men?

more like "I feel guilty but I don't wanna feel guilty, I'm a good guy and good guys aren't supposed to feel like this PLEASE ARGGGHH MAKE IT STOP"

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

Context clues.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

Then stay away from them? Women don't have an obligation to be nice neat little fuck toys for you. We are people and that means we're sometimes scary. Deal with it or get out.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not sure OP is demanding all women be pliant to his every wish. he's talking about a problem that he has because of his own reaction to a trend in certain parts of the culture. I don't think he's issuing a radical manifesto against women's autonomy.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

This whole thread really pisses me off.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

How so?